Has she just refused to wash anything without a machine? Surely, as she lives alone, she is capable of washing her own few clothes etc? Ok, you may be aware of good reason but I am not impressed by people who do little to help themselves.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Jul 5, 2023 7:14:44 GMT -5
She's now cleaned - to the best of what was possible - the washing machine. The threat from the woman who ordered the machine must've shaken Vicky up. Although part of me think it's karma.
Vicky telephoned the council about it maybe 30 times. I've told Vicky that is overboard and obsessive but she didn't want to believe me. Vicky needs to STOP repeatedly telephoning people. She'll get their backs up by doing that. I can't really blame the lady for being angry with Vicky.
Still, Vicky IS lonely and has very few people on her side. I don't pity her: I just sympathize. Being alone has got to be tough on anybody. HOWEVER I have told her to steer clear of the police: why on earth would someone want to tangle with them? The police aren't counsellors: they uphold the law. They don't care about Vicky: they are just doing their job. Also, Vicky believes she can outsmart the police and the authorities. She couldn't be more wrong. The law wins every time. It's like a murderer being traced through the forensic detectives: the technology means criminals are now caught and prosecuted. What makes Vicky different from those criminals? If she isn't careful she could end up in prison. I'd even call it arrogance. Vicky can't stop the law.
I just want Vicky to stop calling out the ambulance and police. I don't expect Vicky to be perfect: I just want her to not do it anymore.
It may end up like the boy who cried wolf. One day she may have a real emergency and no one will want to respond. The emergency services always will but they tend to prioritise much more these days.
I just want Vicky to stop calling out the ambulance and police. I don't expect Vicky to be perfect: I just want her to not do it anymore.
It may end up like the boy who cried wolf. One day she may have a real emergency and no one will want to respond. The emergency services always will but they tend to prioritise much more these days.
It may end up like the boy who cried wolf. One day she may have a real emergency and no one will want to respond. The emergency services always will but they tend to prioritise much more these days.
That's what I think too.
It is a criminal offense. I expect she will be prosecuted long before she gets ignored.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Jul 29, 2023 5:45:39 GMT -5
My friend was on the bus and in incredible pain: the ambulance was called by another passenger on the bus.
It was pretty bad. My friend was taken to the hospital and tested. She is at that-time-of-the-month and there was a lot of blood. She was wearing incontinence pads to hold the blood.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Aug 13, 2023 14:52:24 GMT -5
I just listen and "let" her have her own way and make her own choices.
Vicky is the boss of Vicky and she has to choose for herself and come to her own conclusions. I can listen to her and emotionally support her but I can't decide for her.
I just listen and "let" her have her own way and make her own choices.
Vicky is the boss of Vicky and she has to choose for herself and come to her own conclusions. I can listen to her and emotionally support her but I can't decide for her.
We shall see how this story progresses.
I am starting to develop right wing tendencies where your friend is involved. Surely locking her up would release police time for the rest of us.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Aug 15, 2023 5:11:11 GMT -5
She even dangled her feet outside her flat window: I doubt she would've gone through with it! She also cut her arm: but it was probably just a graze. People who cut themselves REALLY cut themselves. They don't give themselves a small nick: they push the knife right in.
I don't mean to be ghoulish but she had no intention of jumping out the window or cutting herself badly.
I believe she doesn't actually want to commit suicide: I think she craves the attention of it all. After all when you're being treated by the ambulance and other people you are centre of attention. Everyone is fussing over you. This is the motive for Vicky doing these things.
She even dangled her feet outside her flat window: I doubt she would've gone through with it! She also cut her arm: but it was probably just a graze. People who cut themselves REALLY cut themselves. They don't give themselves a small nick: they push the knife right in.
I don't mean to be ghoulish but she had no intention of jumping out the window or cutting herself badly.
I believe she doesn't actually want to commit suicide: I think she craves the attention of it all. After all when you're being treated by the ambulance and other people you are centre of attention. Everyone is fussing over you. This is the motive for Vicky doing these things.
This for sounds very much like a mental disorder such as Munchausen syndrome. The constant need for attention by emergency services seems to indicate a serious problem and she needs mental health care. Soon as she is locked up either for one of her criminal Suites or by being sectioned the better, Society is suffering because of her need for attention.
She even dangled her feet outside her flat window: I doubt she would've gone through with it! She also cut her arm: but it was probably just a graze. People who cut themselves REALLY cut themselves. They don't give themselves a small nick: they push the knife right in.
I don't mean to be ghoulish but she had no intention of jumping out the window or cutting herself badly.
I believe she doesn't actually want to commit suicide: I think she craves the attention of it all. After all when you're being treated by the ambulance and other people you are centre of attention. Everyone is fussing over you. This is the motive for Vicky doing these things.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Aug 21, 2023 7:28:19 GMT -5
I spoke with Vicky last night for virtually 2 hours. Still, it was a good conversation. Also, I will not bitch about Vicky but I do have some opinions.
I just listen to her. AND she IS working with the authorities rather than fighting them. That puts Vicky in a good light.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Oct 1, 2023 5:57:21 GMT -5
The court case keeps being adjourned. It's ridiculous. It is also taking its toll on Vicky's mental health. She is sick and tired of the case being adjourned and just wants it over and done with.
I agree with Vicky about this: it is very frustrating.
The court case keeps being adjourned. It's ridiculous. It is also taking its toll on Vicky's mental health. She is sick and tired of the case being adjourned and just wants it over and done with.
I agree with Vicky about this: it is very frustrating.
Sorry to say but she is getting a taste of her own medicine... She kept wasting other people's time now she knows how that feels..
The court case keeps being adjourned. It's ridiculous. It is also taking its toll on Vicky's mental health. She is sick and tired of the case being adjourned and just wants it over and done with.
I agree with Vicky about this: it is very frustrating.
Sorry to say but she is getting a taste of her own medicine... She kept wasting other people's time now she knows how that feels..
How dare you put forward my opinion before I have had the chance to....
But yes, absolutely spot on, Cassie.
This is a classic example of an eye for aye justice, and I can't help but applaud the system which has accidentally found a fair punishment.
If she is ever going to learn from her timewasting antics, this is the time.
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