All Things Relationship

It isn't fair.

I know rich people and I have no access to their money. They can have the big TV and whatever but their riches aren't for sale. I am on a low income and can only imagine living like Jessica Alba. Having the mansion, the business, the fame, the looks... Why don't I have those things?

It seems so surreal. It is a pure fantasy for most people. The Jessica Alba's of the world are in rare supply. And don't even remind me of Mariah Carey: she can write and sing music, she has the confidence to go on stage, no one bullies her, no one is able to take from her.

It isn't fair.

I don't do jealousy.
I look at people who have used their talents to achieve greatness or good wages and I just think, good on you, well done. I think they set an example to the rest of us to say find your talent make it work for you I see them more of an inspiration than anything else (if I take any notice of them at all)

X I must admit I don't get the whole Kardashian thing I'm not sure what these people have done whenever I've seen them on TV they just seem to be arguing amongst themselves but if people enjoy watching them then that's ok they don't bother me and I really don't care.

I don't have an awful lot but what I do have his mind I know that everything is paid for aiono that I can sleep peacefully at night knowing no one is out to get me and I owe nobody anything.

I think that in itself richness.

Any reason why you can't start now?

Of course another way to get into acting is to sign on as an extra.. It doesnt pay much but it gets your face on screen...

My neighbour's son is well over 6 feet tall and has bright red hair and a beard he recently featured as an invading Viking in a movie...

I think people can be jealous of anything. I dont know why they would be against you being a writer unless maybe, you had some dirt on them you might publish.
But jealousy is a silly childish thing.

My nieghbour is two years younger than me but when I saw her last week she remarked that I dont dye my hair and said its not fair that I hardly have any grey and I dont have wrinkles.
Well I dont sit in the sun or smoke so that helps but we are what we are,

Another neighbour is jealous because we got a new car, shes a very jealous and sour woman and now she wont even say good morning !

Recently when somone saw I had my photos enlarged and hung on the wall she remarked that it wasnt fair, she said you write books are a good cook and take these lovely photos..
I worked hard to be able to do those things though. I get up at crazy hours every day to get sunrise photos , I read books and invest in my kitchen to be able to cook, and I spent a long time thinking abut and writing my book it didnt happen with a magic wand.

People are jealous of the results but most dont want to put in the effort.

Jealousy is childish: and people will be jealous of anything. If someone paints onto canvas, there'd be jealousy. If someone is fluent in French, there'd be jealousy. The list goes on.

The key is to not let jealousy get to you. You have to carry on doing what you love anyway. I won't apologise for not being a dunce at English. Because I AM good at English. I won't be sorry for anything I have because I worked hard for it all. Even when I made mistakes I picked myself up off the floor, dusted myself off and started again. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone is human.

I'd advise anyone to feel pride in themselves and congratulate themselves for their skills, abilities and achievements, without apologising to anyone. There are so many ways to be a person of achievement: it could even be becoming fluent in German or gaining a science degree.

If someone is jealous, just get on with your life. Carry on with your passions, because they'll find someone else to be jealous of.

Out of all the people I know, I would say I probably know one or no more than 2 jaelous persons. People are too busy with their life, they don't have time to get jaelous.

A good saying is:

"A life making mistakes is a life better lived than spending a life doing nothing."

An apt statement.

www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-and-mating/202106/how-relationship-troubles-can-cause-depression?

Yep.

I think I figure out a way to deal with my sister, I just go along with what she says and b___h later

Three years after my mom's passing and six years after my dad's, we finally have time to take a look at what to do with their assets. The houses need to be sold, but they need some repairs/maintenance. My sister Vivi wants to use her contractors for the works, painting, termite, roof service, yard planting... I says fine but I know there are something I don't like and I am holding out for it.

My husband and my BILs told us that the dynamics of us three sisters are "complicate".

One thing nice about being short, I never have to change the smoke alarm batteries.

Now if I could just get my husband to use the dish washer. I'm certain he hand washes just to irk me.

My dad and all of my mom's sisters(4) married to men who are 11-12 years older than they are.

OH is 7 years older than me. When we were very young it showed more but now we are both old and grey no one even notices !

I am the older by 5 years...