All Things Relationship

This person and I started communicating through text and even phone calls. We even shared some personal things before suddenly out of the blue she stopped returning my phone calls or just plain not answer. She would rarely ever text me back. She would always invite me to places and then never give me a date or a time. She knows I have to drive far for any meet-up or even work. She says hi to me at work and stuff, but we have yet to really hang out because of this. It always felt like she was trying to purposely not tell me because she didn't really want to hang out with me. I asked another close friend and she said she felt that she did the same thing to her. Yet this friend and her friend group always seems nice to me even though it just comes off as superficial. The girl who told me about her similar experience has shown to me to be a true friend and even called me during a period where I was sick, with some cold or flu, to check in on me. Yet none of this person's friend group didn't care enough to. I used to listen to her problems all of the time, but whenever I said something in person, she was always on her phone which led to her saying, "What?"

She comes off as really really fake. The only thing she ever wanted to talk about was who I had a crush on and repeatedly brought it up. There was a period where I said can I we stop but someone in her friend group eventually brought up which sent me back on that emotional roller coaster. Her friend has depression and told me the thought of that made her day, so I sort of let her have it. But now she accuses me of being the one to bring it up. The entire texts I received just screams of someone who avoids personal responsibility, easy to project, and likely full of lies. It was a great way of saying you don't care while also claiming to be my friend. And in sheer stupidity, outright admitted that, "she only cares about her money and her man."



This probably explains why she always leaves her post during work leaving her co-workers to take on the burden of her absences. My close friend, my actual friend, hates her when she does this because it puts physical strain on her back and her limbs. I recently brought this up to the managers on her behalf. But, honestly, I don't want fake friends in my life and she comes off as extremely fake. Apparently, a lot of other workers there also have some level of beef with her. I feel bad about cutting her loose, but I don't want to waste my time with someone who has to pretend to like me.