All Things Relationship

Can we hear your adventures? Maybe we can vet possible candidates for you..

No toupees, no comb overs, no creatively dead minds need apply kind of thing .lol

Thank you for all your advice! I shall definitely be careful. Who knows: I may meet someone wonderful. Although I won't propose marriage on the first date!

Must have gsoh? 

Evening ,

I dont know if you have been on dating forums and if you know what to look out for .

Its riddeled with scammer,s most are very good at scamming thier english is tainted by thier back ground and the red flags are many they are getting better, yet at the beginning the red flag will be with in the first line they will not show a photo of them selfs or voice some say they are in the Millitary if they do scammer, and end it right there or are working on the oil rig scammer, some will say sorry i,m not here often as i,m away working and send me your email if you dont they lose it and demand you send it.

They make out they have lots of money and buildings or when can we meet do not ever give out any of your info ,,,,,,,NOT EVER,,,,,,,,,or send money .

To check them out go to our German forums on Scammer,s and theres other,s as well ,

If you do ....IF.....you get invited out do not ever leave a drink alone it will get drugged check with the people who work in the bars or where ever if they know the person your with do have a back up the barman or bar lady are all knowing whats going on so all ways have 10 min chat with them , get to know them before you meet who ever .

And if you do get asked back to his flat or room or where ever make sure you have rung your backup friend tell them where you are no room or place all details and state you will ring in ...say 20 min,s or 30 min,s to say all is well if you dont ring tell you friend to ring the Police or a male friend and get the oner on the job with the key and get you out,

I know of and yes knew some who were killed , so just a warning be Bloody Carefull. okay.

...noeleena...

I know I probably should’ve realized this sooner, but it’s now officially a dealbreaker if a man is passionately transphobic. If he cannot respect transgender women, the chances of him mistreating cisgender women are practically high. Ironic since a lot of these men would often times claim to “protect women,” yet they all seem as though they hate their cis wives, sisters, girlfriends, and mothers. Plus their arguments are laced with misogyny. f**k no!

Bad guys don't tell you they are bad guys, coz they don't believe they are.

They see their failings as 'normal' so won't announce it. You will only find out if it comes up, or give them a questionnaire to fill in.

A  mutual friend introduced us. "You are so similar, you will love her when we get together."

I think she disliked me first, but my dislike was more intense. She was so annoying, and full of herself.

If that was looking in a mirror, then I need a very different one.

I'm sure he won't mind a little attention

Most men enjoy a little flirting as long as it's not dirty or common.

I like to flirt.. I flirt with the man at the local DIY store he now knows my car and as soon as I pull up he is getting my order ready and stands waiting to serve me. He knows I'm married I know that he has a partner there is nothing filthy dirty or nasty about it just a little innocent banter and we both laugh about it.

I guess there is just so much opportunity for double entendre... Things like grease nipples come to mind..

Thomas IS incredibly cute!

That tells us a lot?