As mental health awareness week is just around the corner ( may 15-20th ) I thought I would share an event that happened to myself and my daughter a few years ago. It shows why mental awareness weeks are still so important.
Ive also been dumped by two pen friends recently right after telling them I am the full time carer for my husband because he has dementia.
My daughter and I went to the flower market we saw some really lovely flowers and plants. I bought a goblin for the garden and she got a strawberry plant. When we stopped for a snack outside the glass fronted museum my daughter noticed a smart young man in a suit inside the building, in plain view of the busy street sitting on the floor looking at his phone and he was visibly upset. As we ate our snack he suddenly began to sob, we were outside so we couldnt hear anything but he was really sobbing. His head in hands, shoulders shaking with distress as he cried. Its so unusual to see a grown man cry , so we knew there had to be something seriously wrong. Yet people walked past and ignored him, some people inside the building walked inches away from him and did nothing, one man stopped but only to ask for directions to the toilets and outside where we sat only one person showed any concern..A child said 'daddy that man is crying' but her father just shrugged, took her hand and walked away. I held her food while she spoke to a member of the museum staff and asked if they could help the man.
With mental health very much in the news and mental health awareness week just around the corner it was sad and shocking to see that people just didnt care, didnt want to get involved..This wasn't a homeless person or a drunk or a junkie or someone in an alley late at night ( so no excuse about personal safety issues) it was a smart young man in a nice suit in a museum during lunch hour but even so no one was willing to take a moment to just ask 'are you ok'? No wonder we need awareness weeks people are so selfish and self absorbed if we didnt have them no one would ever get any help at all..
As mental health awareness week is just around the corner ( may 15-20th ) I thought I would share an event that happened to myself and my daughter a few years ago. It shows why mental awareness weeks are still so important.
Ive also been dumped by two pen friends recently right after telling them I am the full time carer for my husband because he has dementia.
My daughter and I went to the flower market we saw some really lovely flowers and plants. I bought a goblin for the garden and she got a strawberry plant. When we stopped for a snack outside the glass fronted museum my daughter noticed a smart young man in a suit inside the building, in plain view of the busy street sitting on the floor looking at his phone and he was visibly upset. As we ate our snack he suddenly began to sob, we were outside so we couldnt hear anything but he was really sobbing. His head in hands, shoulders shaking with distress as he cried. Its so unusual to see a grown man cry , so we knew there had to be something seriously wrong. Yet people walked past and ignored him, some people inside the building walked inches away from him and did nothing, one man stopped but only to ask for directions to the toilets and outside where we sat only one person showed any concern..A child said 'daddy that man is crying' but her father just shrugged, took her hand and walked away. I held her food while she spoke to a member of the museum staff and asked if they could help the man.
With mental health very much in the news and mental health awareness week just around the corner it was sad and shocking to see that people just didnt care, didnt want to get involved..This wasn't a homeless person or a drunk or a junkie or someone in an alley late at night ( so no excuse about personal safety issues) it was a smart young man in a nice suit in a museum during lunch hour but even so no one was willing to take a moment to just ask 'are you ok'? No wonder we need awareness weeks people are so selfish and self absorbed if we didnt have them no one would ever get any help at all..
There are a lot of arses about.
Many years ago, I was driving along on a main road. There was a van coming towards me, and the driver, a man, had tears running down his face.
As mental health awareness week is just around the corner ( may 15-20th ) I thought I would share an event that happened to myself and my daughter a few years ago. It shows why mental awareness weeks are still so important.
Ive also been dumped by two pen friends recently right after telling them I am the full time carer for my husband because he has dementia.
My daughter and I went to the flower market we saw some really lovely flowers and plants. I bought a goblin for the garden and she got a strawberry plant. When we stopped for a snack outside the glass fronted museum my daughter noticed a smart young man in a suit inside the building, in plain view of the busy street sitting on the floor looking at his phone and he was visibly upset. As we ate our snack he suddenly began to sob, we were outside so we couldnt hear anything but he was really sobbing. His head in hands, shoulders shaking with distress as he cried. Its so unusual to see a grown man cry , so we knew there had to be something seriously wrong. Yet people walked past and ignored him, some people inside the building walked inches away from him and did nothing, one man stopped but only to ask for directions to the toilets and outside where we sat only one person showed any concern..A child said 'daddy that man is crying' but her father just shrugged, took her hand and walked away. I held her food while she spoke to a member of the museum staff and asked if they could help the man.
With mental health very much in the news and mental health awareness week just around the corner it was sad and shocking to see that people just didnt care, didnt want to get involved..This wasn't a homeless person or a drunk or a junkie or someone in an alley late at night ( so no excuse about personal safety issues) it was a smart young man in a nice suit in a museum during lunch hour but even so no one was willing to take a moment to just ask 'are you ok'? No wonder we need awareness weeks people are so selfish and self absorbed if we didnt have them no one would ever get any help at all..
IDK why people would feel the need to 'dump' you because you care for someone with dementia...? Unless they're some of those people who don't know what to say, so instead they'd rather avoid you.
I don't think I'd be able to just leave if I saw someone crying openly like that... I'd want to make sure they were okay or help make them feel less alone.
Last Edit: May 11, 2023 12:33:51 GMT -5 by heatherly
I don't think I'd be able to just leave if I saw someone crying openly like that... I'd want to make sure they were okay or help make them feel less alone.
Same here. I'd almost definitely talk to the person and offer some comfort. It's heartbreaking for the man.
I'm on methimazole, but I'm sure I'll be joining the T4 club eventually. I think I need to cut this sucker out in the next couple years because the goiter won't stop growing.. ugh. Plus this large, solid nodule that popped up out of nowhere making things feel even more tight in the neck.
I did okay on these meds for almost 20 years, and I kind of was hoping I could be like that indefinitely and one day even swing more hypo with age, but it decided to act out again last year... the meds still control the levels well for the most part (I can still get by on lower dosages most of the time with occasional increases), but the growth of the thyroid can't be stopped it seems I wanted to give it time to see if it could calm back down once my levels are stable for a while (recently staying stable without having to change my dose), but I may be running out of time.... don't want to wait until it's an emergency situation where I can't breathe anymore because I want to be able to choose my surgeon!
Last Edit: May 13, 2023 8:47:25 GMT -5 by heatherly
Oh... Well that could be part of the reason you often feel tired. Thyroid problems are often paired with energy/ sleep problems.
Popcorn&Candy Definitely what cassie said. Sounds like a dose increase would be needed if sleeping alllll the time. Both sides give fatigue but in different ways.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on May 13, 2023 23:49:48 GMT -5
I'll be tired later this morning: I felt restless in bed and couldn't sleep. I got out of bed at 4am. HOWEVER I will be napping later this morning, just to recharge my batteries.
I'll be tired later this morning: I felt restless in bed and couldn't sleep. I got out of bed at 4am. HOWEVER I will be napping later this morning, just to recharge my batteries.
I had a 30 minute nap at my dad's house today. It helped.
I am getting ready for bed now and will get up at a later time on Monday morning.
First time breast screening for me in the morning. Some people say it hurts and others say “you’ll be fine.” My thoughts are, I don’t care about the pain as long as I’m cleared and the result is fine. I admit, I’m anxious.
First time breast screening for me in the morning. Some people say it hurts and others say “you’ll be fine.” My thoughts are, I don’t care about the pain as long as I’m cleared and the result is fine. I admit, I’m anxious.
First time breast screening for me in the morning. Some people say it hurts and others say “you’ll be fine.” My thoughts are, I don’t care about the pain as long as I’m cleared and the result is fine. I admit, I’m anxious.
I have the most sensitive boobs around . If anyone as much as breathes near them they hurt so I was dreading it after hearing the horror stories. I can tell you its not a nice feeling but its no way as bad as the stories would have you believe.
a_muppet: Ha, I just spotted you, Noeleena - sneaking in. ::Sgc7Hl4::
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TestDummyCO: WOF has creaky floors. ::mCOIty6::
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heatherly: ::Sgc7Hl4::
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jen: It's good to know you are still here Noeleena ::Sgc7Hl4::
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Ɖσмιиιc ♰: creaking floors, you make me laugh, Cherry has good eyes huh?
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noeleena: Thank you i do come in allmost every night ,just dont allways have some thing to say ,of cause you know i,m a spy....lol,s.
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MaryContrary: lol hi noeleena!
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MaryContrary: she's like the wof elf on a shelf *giggles*
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