The Unacceptable

Personally I'd like to say, thank you for taking a stand against discrimination.

I think we've all talked about it enough. We are accepting of all women here, and some of the comments made at times are not ones anyone would want to read about themselves if it were targeted toward them, plain and simple.

Do you mean to tell me we will no longer have discussions in which I can be a non-participant?!

Amen!

I'm also frustrated because I'm kinda tired of constantly having to walk on eggshells around everyone for fear I may say something offensive. Maybe it's time to consider putting the media away. IDK but it's just exhausting anymore.

I think you may have been burned by other moderators, on other forums or groups. You well know the only three active mods on here, and you well know we are not out to get anyone, and that we are not vindictive people.

Anyone crossing a line, and they are rather grey usually, will be politely advised before any restrictions are put into place.

If memory serves me, you have never been anywhere near a red line. 

The old adage still stands up here: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Yes, it's something I think too

Yes, me too.

What helps is that my goal is never to make anyone feel bad about themselves, no matter how much I disagree with them... It is natural for me, but anyone can learn to be more tactful if they choose their words based on that type of mindset, I think

Generally, communication done in a respectful way can shine light to both parties intended message. Sometimes, it can bring up an out of the box insights. However, the decision may be the right thing to do since it appears that majority of active members are not comfortable on the subject matter or not keen to participate.

I just want to assert that I have had no discriminatory intention in bringing up the subject. Disagreement is not tantamount to discrimination. I have transgender friends who I respect highly. I refer her "her" even before the soaring stipulating demand to use the preferred pronouns. It's called decency and politeness back in the days, at least, in my experience.

No worries on my part. I know my place. If no one wants to talk about sensitive topic as such in a non-discriminatory and objective way, I'm fine with it. Thanks, Cherry, for moderating.

Phew




hmm, I rather think "opposite" direction.

Overall, touche.

Sensitive subjects do seem to be a very small part of this forum. There is plenty here other than that.

Largely the forum does seem to have evolved into a laid back, warm and supportive area.

The internet is full of forums, and there are far better places for a fight over sensitive subjects, if that is what anyone is looking for.

Things like politics are subjects that I may comment on but really don't interest me that much so I don't dwell on it. I'm no expert so, beyond a vote, that's really it. The same can be applied to many other sensitive subjects. Ten points for guessing the one thread here that I don't ever think I've posted on and never even look at it (mods are dis-allowed ).

..and such a generous prize...

Diversity of thoughts have ups and downs in any community (online or IRL). There will always be a clash of opinions no matter what because we are all unique in every way. Discussing contentious subject matters in an objective way is a way to make a progress. I apologise for accidentally disturbing the peace and quiet nature of WOF. Reflecting back, I acknowledged my missteps by not carefully checking enough before I decided opening a discussion like I did. It's a learning experience for me.  You're right. This corner of the internet is no place for sensitive topics as such and that's alright. Now that I pretty much know what's underneath the river, I won't swim next time. I'll ride a boat. Whistles. Rowing the boat in a nice, sunny day. Now, that's the girl time.