Random Thoughts & Chitchat (G)

We don't get many guests, so the threads might be empty until you fill them in

It's just for whatever random thought is in your head that you felt like chatting about that maybe you didn't want to make a whole thread about lol

Good luck with your book.. that's quite the undertaking. I could never write a book... I guess I'm similar with having lots of ideas that come up, but they are all kind of short, nothing I could make lengthy.... and really, nothing I can make sound interesting enough for long enough.

I remember in school they would make us make diagrams about our ideas/plots, with a beginning, middle, end, etc. And then we build from there. That might help you be more organized with your ideas for your book.

hey Heatherly how are you

ah thanks for letting me know as I felt like an out sider and also cause I talk too much I didn't wanna fill every guest section with me and my silly ideas ect , it sounds like I am the pioneer of the guest area haha sweet at least that's a good reason and permission to ramble on haha

Well the random aspect was tricky couldn't think where to start so went outside the box and literally thought was been random recently ha why am I soo happy here always saying ha and laughing maybe just wanna fit in and laughing at myself

As I said before worried I'll mess up maybe just positive laughing energy all the way is good

Even on the forum I have been with for couple years and I people let me talk sooooo much on and everyone has been super nice but I started to feel un wanted there, like seems my posts are ignored even when trying to highlight something the group may like to know about and it took me a while to feel ok about being the one who can write paragraphs of just my thoughts or a review of something and even then I felt guilty at times and say sorry, maybe forums aren't for me.

I'm trying really hard to notice here if I go wrong if I annoy people and especially if I talk to much ect, like I said someone I mentioned in a few private messages that I might just step away a bit (already) cause I am a chatter box and people don't like that.

Thank you Heatherly for in a way letting me know I am wanted here and can fill up the guest section but just wonder how everyone here feels don't wanna get this wrong again 3rd time lucky ha my special number is 4 so who knows, I think not sure why maybe its all the laughing and nervousness I feel about being here in this forum but I have opened up quicker here than any where or time else with people, think half of it is fed up of being lonely and the other half just wanna click with you all make friends cause soo often not any of you ofcourse but soo often I mess up or annoy women and I don't get whats wrong with me and learned to be very cautions even more so than just cause I am shy I wanna fix something I think be less worried about what I am gonna say you know if I am gonna mess up

Fresh start right maybe new friends here

Take care everyone, stay positive hugs

Regards - Declan Sargent

hey Heatherly , how are you

thank you soo much for your kindness and understanding

I understand your point about condensing it down think I need practice with that , just ramble on and have soo many ideas ect just often a small thing I wanna say just carried on , its like those school idea spider webs things I think you mentioed.

with they you have 1 idea and you have to find as much stuff that links to the main idea as possible its like that I just link everything, I think school really affected me often not greatly

you know they say school shapes you sort of thing something like that, well yeah it did for me

In secondary school is where soo much of me shifted I guess, like nothing to do in register/waiting before lesson time so I just twirled my pen around, and now I just twitch a lot always moving in some way like with spinning pens, or nervous leg shaking which my driving teacher noticed, I cant really keep still especially if bored or nervous school did that

Main one is thinking and writing too quick that's 100% school, I was slow even got the laptop when I was older well

So when I was in primary the learning support women forced me over and over telling me my writing wouldn't be good or wanted ect in secondary school if its not joined up and I always fought her about it cause I couldn't get it really, it slowed me down, smudge everything ect, and when I was younger in my first school I learned separate writing, then this teacher forced me to join up so I did and then in secondary school I couldn't keep up cause of the joined writing and it looked rubbish but I kept going till older and my scary English/film teacher told me to separate the letters and that nobody can read my writing, so after years of being told and learning to join I felt soo fed up I had to go back to separate and didn't have time to practice and speed up so I was slow even if you could now read my writing.

So especially with that teacher he would take away the writing on the board soo quick and we wrote massive essays each lesson, pages and pages of writing from the board that disappears at the speed of light ha and practice essays soo tough for me and my fingers burned out and I couldn't keep up and keep good hand writing, its either slow and neat but then you fall behind in class or turbo speed and nobody understands what you wrote ha, they put me on computer for my final year exams, so cause of the speed of work and copying stuff and the stress of it all and never seeming to have enough time in exams even with the computer and 15 mins you get extra for that I now think very fast, type and write extremely fast and I guess I always write too much aswell, school shaped me that way now stuck at super speed ha

So I am sorry for talking way too much and being speedy gonzales ha its just me now and nobody seems to get that but yeah hope its ok here

Take care everyone stay positive hugs

Regards - Declan Sargent

My random thought is that I like Led Zeppelin, Deep Purple, Uriah Heep and the like.

Well, there are lots of new groups, but so far I havnt' heard anything better than Led Zeppelin.
I think it may be compared with the classic music. There are new genres, but there are harldy anything better than Bach or Betchoven  

Harp music can be good.

Random thought from me: We are in Los Angeles since yesterday. We are staying at the Intercontinental In Downtown LA. Last night, hubby and I wandered to the lobby when we first arrived to get a snack, there were two women sitting in the lobby, they were about 50. Their dresses were basically fishnet, it showed their bra and underwear ( practically) , thigh high boots, I saw them again this morning. Then we just came back from dinner, in the elevator with us were two young girls, they had bra as their top, very tight short skirts, the weather outside is under 40 degrees. I told my husband they must be prostitute. There are too many Asian men ( look like Japanese or Korean) on business and these women must be sent to their room. I feel sorry for these young girls but at the same time, I really hate what I saw. I am not sure if the hotel is aware of what happens because this should not happen is a respectable establishment.

Thats is so sad. I agree with you that they are probably prostitutes. I would think the hotel would be aware of them. If you spotted then that easy I am sure they did too. I am a bit shocked that they don't do anything about it. 

It's a perfectly honourable profession and has been around forever. Let's not condemn people we know nothing about.

One side are trying to earn a living, the others are scratching an itch, and neither group is deserving of our judgement.

But as I said earlier, the situation is not ideal, and the women should be looking after themselves better.

I just think we should live to our own standards and as long as we are not harming others, that's a valid way of life.

We all sell our bodies to some extent.

Feel free to debate with me on any subject Dominic, your opinion is no less valid than anyone else's.

The point of debate imo is just to make people say to themselves "Interesting thought". It doesn't tend to change opinions, but it's good to look at other people's pov, and measure it against your own.

I can write a book on this. Seriously. In fact, on my way to work, I did record a voice recording on this, but now that you ask, this , it's not gonna quite answer this, my voice recording was for a_muppet if she wants me to post it here, I will. If not, no worry.

The problem with me is...I have been horny my whole life, since age 5, and it impacted almost every area of my life.

If you want me to give a really long full answer, let me know. I will make a recording for you, voice recording or face to face, I don't care. You will understand it better that way, than me typing a bunch of text.

I did a rush move when I married my wife. I was young, and we got married in Las Vegas. It was a legit minister and he showed me his credentials, before that was the legal paperwork which is the real marriage in the law's eyes. I wish I couldn't done it over and given my wife a proper wedding. I will live with this regret forever.