Something that you would change

Yeah, it isn't about health issues; it's something that you could change that's in your control. And . . . I knew that your response to my goal would be that I could always talk here!

If there is one thing I have learned while trying over the years to build my self confidence it is, that lacking self confidence is the norm.

No-one ever has enough.

You start talking to people and you soon find out, that they are no more confident than you. They feel that they are going to be spotted as frauds. They even are not sure what to do with their hands when they are standing still. You leave them by your side, or you talk with them.

What do I want?

Put me down for self confidence too. The feeling that you lack it is so inherent in us all, that even just a little bit more would be useful.

Something I wish I could change (and am working on) is saying what I mean. Sometimes I get carried away in a moment and don't say what I should, because it isn't a nice thing to say. I don't mean saying something MEAN, but something someone has to hear.

For example, I get mad at my SO cuz he thinks its "immature" that I like to go out with my girlfriends, but instead of arguing with him and explaining that there is nothing wrong with me going out without him and I am not going to do something wrong (and subsequently cause a fight) I just change the subject and go out anyway.

if I could change one thing? maybe for being selfless to my family. I mean, day after day, they were expecting more from me, the thing is I need to strive more and work harder for them and being in here is the place where I can say that im in my safe zone

Listen to my husband more.......oh and become a better cook.

My husband told me to say that.

Hey, then there is an example of you listening to your husband more ;-)