I try to hold grudges but i usually forget. As crazy as that sounds. By the time I'm walking away from a conversation Im thinking, "oops I'm supposed to be mad"
Haha, sometimes I do that. I did that last night actually. I was sort of upset with my boyfriend and trying not to really be as talkative with him... but then we were watching one of our shows together, and I caught myself laughing and smiling like I was never upset.. and I was thinking, "wait, I'm supposed to be upset with him still"... and then I just let it go lol
Post by heatherly on Sept 29, 2015 12:43:02 GMT -5
Geez, Callie.. where do you find all these people!?!?! lol
I don't run into many rude people... aside from when playing online video games. Some of the worst people you can ever possibly meet are online, that's for sure, because they just hide behind their monitor and say whatever the heck they want. I don't know how people can behave that way.
Post by usmichelle on Sept 30, 2015 4:34:28 GMT -5
"Haha, sometimes I do that. I did that last night actually. I was sort of upset with my boyfriend and trying not to really be as talkative with him... but then we were watching one of our shows together, and I caught myself laughing and smiling like I was never upset.. and I was thinking, "wait, I'm supposed to be upset with him still"... and then I just let it go lol"
Heather I think that just means you're mature, and healthy.
We all overreact over the silliest things.
No one gets to me more than my own family.
I walk on egg shells around my mom.
How much of it real or perceived, I guess I just don't know.
If she decided to be nice to me I would probably miss it.
Post by britishbea on Sept 30, 2015 4:37:46 GMT -5
i also hate it when people say when they see M 'he doesnt know who i am, i never see him, ill see you again next year then.. etc'
guess how much effort they put into seeing him?? little to none!!
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
Post by britishbea on Sept 30, 2015 4:54:57 GMT -5
it does hurt Shell, alot really, we are a close knit family but we dont see each other that often, to be honest mainly at events. the person that makes the most effort is my sissy, we visit OH grandparents because they are old and his grandad is ill, we just dont know how long they will be ere for, my grandparents live quite a drive away so thats not easy, my parents ee him every few weeks, once, and i go to them, every time i offer to come to mine there is a reason why they cant, and my mum works alot. My grandad came to see M when he was new born, and other than that ive gone to him or weve seen him at my mums. i take him to see my nana as often as i can but again its not easy for me to get up and go somewhere, why should i have to travel in the cold with my little boy. i have hundreds of aunties and uncles and he only sees them on occasion, no one ever offers to come see us, and as for my brother, ppff.. i dont see my own nieces and nephew because his girlfriend is a bitch
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
it does hurt Shell, alot really, we are a close knit family but we dont see each other that often, to be honest mainly at events. the person that makes the most effort is my sissy, we visit OH grandparents because they are old and his grandad is ill, we just dont know how long they will be ere for, my grandparents live quite a drive away so thats not easy, my parents ee him every few weeks, once, and i go to them, every time i offer to come to mine there is a reason why they cant, and my mum works alot. My grandad came to see M when he was new born, and other than that ive gone to him or weve seen him at my mums. i take him to see my nana as often as i can but again its not easy for me to get up and go somewhere, why should i have to travel in the cold with my little boy. i have hundreds of aunties and uncles and he only sees them on occasion, no one ever offers to come see us, and as for my brother, ppff.. i dont see my own nieces and nephew because his girlfriend is a bitch
Unfortunately, things may never change.
Just be the resource you already are to your family.
That is what';s most important B.
Families can be more trouble than they're worth sometimes.
"Haha, sometimes I do that. I did that last night actually. I was sort of upset with my boyfriend and trying not to really be as talkative with him... but then we were watching one of our shows together, and I caught myself laughing and smiling like I was never upset.. and I was thinking, "wait, I'm supposed to be upset with him still"... and then I just let it go lol"
Heather I think that just means you're mature, and healthy.
We all overreact over the silliest things.
No one gets to me more than my own family.
I walk on egg shells around my mom.
How much of it real or perceived, I guess I just don't know.
If she decided to be nice to me I would probably miss it.
But, I'm not as bad as I used to be.
I used to say I couldn't be bullied as I would rather walk away.
But at my last job I was, and you really don't see it coming. It is like being drawn into a web, and by the time you are on the web, you are trapped there, and you cannot get off.
You do have my sincerest sympathy over your life style. I would love to tell you to just walk away, but you are obviously not currently able to do that.
Just keep in mind that you can, and one day, you probably will, or she will release you.
I did walk out, but it took me some time to do it, and a lot of me............
Last Edit: Oct 1, 2015 17:20:50 GMT -5 by a_muppet
I'd like to rant a little about my instructor. She has not responded to me in a week. I asked her to explain the answers for my incorrect questions so I can understand them better, and nothing! The thing that is most annoying about this is that we have to write an analysis about our incorrect answers, so if I don't even understand why it's wrong, then I cannot finish my other assignment. She is putting me behind =/ I just sent her another email, so hopefully I hear something, even if it's just her saying she doesn't know why either lol
i hate when people stand in the window at my work picking their nose while their child headbuts the window, so they know how annoying it is for a child to be banging on the window where i work. then theres the kids that use the window as a road for their toy cars, now you can imagine the sound that makes!!!
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
no i mean like little tramps walking past you in the street and just spit in front of you for no reason at all. I spit if ive run a marathon, but not randomly walking down the street in front of people, thats gross and very rude too!!
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
The company I work for is supposed to be a care giving organistation. The care Jack about the employees as our contracts have been changed 3 times in 5 years, not renewal but change of terms conditions and rates of pay. The way we get paid as a self employed person or as an employee of the company..
Its just changed again and yet again Ive had to apply for my own job again, the care rota are all messed up the poor old ladies are being left in the lurch and now they are asking why I ddidnt turn up when the company didnt plan me in!!!! It a mess its a total and utter mess and the company cannot understand what we are complaining about.. I really think scrapping the stupid inept and totallt unsuitable office staff would be a help in getting this orangisation back on track...
and breathe cass breathe.........but Im just so **^%$@%& at them
Zero hour contracts are all the rage over here for the big employers, have you got them yet?
Yep terrible things. Who can live on zero hours? Everyone with bills to pay has to have an idea of their income zero hour contracts are like living on a knife edge all the time.
As a carer we used to have min max contracts 8-16 16-24 or 24-32 hours and you could choose what catagory you wanted. These days they talk about being flexible but that only applies to the workers not to the bosses.
when people try to tell your child off. Yes love i am very well aware that it is your daughters first birthday, but telling off my son for playing with her will only A. make him want the toys more and B. make your child as selfish as you are. and sure enough as soon as she started taking her daughters toys off him and give them all to her daughter, M was snatching them from her.
yes malakai was in the wrong for snatching toys from a 1 year old, but she was just as wrong telling him hes not allowed to play with them. whenever it comes down to a situation like that, where a parent doesnt let M play with their kids toys, i leave them to it, i will tell M off when hes doing wrong but not when hes playing nicely with someone elses toys.
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
I dont tell children off I give them a stare that is enough to stop most in their tracks.
My pet hate are parents who think they have the right to allow their children to run riot in shops an offices hospitals doctors clinic etc etc. This week is half term and shopping was a nightmare. Kids swinging on trolleys , climbing on shelves, poking the fruit, running up and down like mad creatures and even dipping their hands into the self scoop nuts.. Yes I spoke to a staff member, she agreed but said there was little she could do.
Today in the electrical shop trying to buy a fridge with three children playing hide and seek round and round the appliences , screaming and jumping around, they ran into OH's leg twice which has never been strong since his op and at the moment is about the size of a football.
But God forbid you say anything to the parents about their little monsters, sorry darlings.. Disipline and manners seem to be a thing of the past.
a_muppet: Ha, I just spotted you, Noeleena - sneaking in. ::Sgc7Hl4::
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