i just dont like kids, i do care about them, and i do love them dearly, but man they just infuriate me sometimes haha
Last Edit: Jun 10, 2015 5:36:46 GMT -5 by britishbea
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Post by jengurl1987 on May 28, 2015 17:54:29 GMT -5
Well, at least your son's name is Malakai rather than Malachai (Children of the Corn)! Kids can be respectful and then not so much. . . I talked to a little girl a few days ago and told her that "I'm Sorry." is Lo siento in Spanish. I saw her today and straight away she said "Lo siento"! I love the good kids because they like to learn. Maybe we should just have John Cleese silly-walk over the bad ones. Best of luck, Callie!
hahahaha Cher, that made me laugh. i want loads of boys, i think they are just amazing, no girls for me, YUKK!!
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
the thing is, i do love them dearly, i really do, i see them as my family but that doesnt mean i have to like them right? i always asked before i got pregnant 'do you have more patience for your own kids than you do with other peoples, or am i just not cut out to be a mum' i do have more patience for M than i do other kids, but that could be his age too, we will soon see. i guess i just need to breathe, count to 10 and only tell them off when i see fit, the way i see it, if you are in my house you follow my rules, simple as
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
I love kids but once they reach that tweeny age and beyond they start to get annoying (and I hate to say this) especially girls. Boys are so simple, food, sleep, tv, video games, repeat and they are fine. Girls on the other hands....lets face it ladies we are just diabolical at that age,
oh i cant cope with girls, you know what, i think my buttons have well and truly been pushed. my OHs youngest niece comes around alot, shes, lets just say.. a brat!! well and truly, shes never been made to share, or taught to share, or ensure she shares, so guess what, shes not too keen on sharing, she once pushed and threw a wooden brick at M bcos he was joining in when she was playing with them, she pushes him out of toys, away from toys, out of her way, she does it slyly, with her head, as though shes not pushing, just looking down, im not stupid enogh to believe her.. anyway, her parents are kinda sort of not really potty training, in other words they do when they cba, she was at ours with pants on, she did something to M and was ignoring me so i told her to go sit away from me and M until she can be nice, i did raise my voice a bit but i had enough of being ingnored, my house, my rules, anyway she stood up and pissed herself, purposely, her mum asked why, her reply 'calllie upset me' BS! if i upset her she would have done it right away not stood up then smirked at me. she is a very smart 3 year old.
anyway i think ive been tipped over the edge, she asked for a drink, so i got her a cup, the only open top cup that M has, she said something about it been her cup, her mum told her its Malakais, she threw a strop that M is not a big boy and doesnt need a big cup, so she can have it, when she was told again its not her cup she decided to spit in it!! now i know i can clean it, but that doesnt mean i go spitting in cups myself, it wasnt as though it was a mistake bcos she then continued to spit on her mum and my sofa, the worst thing is.. her mum is pregnant again -.-
does anyone think i was unreasonable to not let her have a drink after spitting in Ms cup?
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep
I don't find it unreasonable. That's behavior that needs to be punished, and that's not really a harsh punishment lol but enough of one for her to begin to learn not to do it!
Why does her mom let her spit on her and your couch?? I just don't understand.
And her pissing on purpose... wow. What are they creating?
oh i cant cope with girls, you know what, i think my buttons have well and truly been pushed. my OHs youngest niece comes around alot, shes, lets just say.. a brat!! well and truly, shes never been made to share, or taught to share, or ensure she shares, so guess what, shes not too keen on sharing, she once pushed and threw a wooden brick at M bcos he was joining in when she was playing with them, she pushes him out of toys, away from toys, out of her way, she does it slyly, with her head, as though shes not pushing, just looking down, im not stupid enogh to believe her.. anyway, her parents are kinda sort of not really potty training, in other words they do when they cba, she was at ours with pants on, she did something to M and was ignoring me so i told her to go sit away from me and M until she can be nice, i did raise my voice a bit but i had enough of being ingnored, my house, my rules, anyway she stood up and pissed herself, purposely, her mum asked why, her reply 'calllie upset me' BS! if i upset her she would have done it right away not stood up then smirked at me. she is a very smart 3 year old.
anyway i think ive been tipped over the edge, she asked for a drink, so i got her a cup, the only open top cup that M has, she said something about it been her cup, her mum told her its Malakais, she threw a strop that M is not a big boy and doesnt need a big cup, so she can have it, when she was told again its not her cup she decided to spit in it!! now i know i can clean it, but that doesnt mean i go spitting in cups myself, it wasnt as though it was a mistake bcos she then continued to spit on her mum and my sofa, the worst thing is.. her mum is pregnant again -.-
does anyone think i was unreasonable to not let her have a drink after spitting in Ms cup?
You know what, Callie?
That kid is going home, and you don't have to look after it, it is not your problem. That kid is just as awful at her own home. You are bringing M up to your own standards.
My only concern is that you may have to refuse this child the opportunity to teach him bad behaviour.
that is the problem Cher, if i didnt have M her behaviour wouldnt bother me in the slightest, yeah she would still follow my rules but truth is before we had M there werent many rules, i mean we didnt have toys and there was no one there she had to share with, she was a lovely little girl then but as soon as she had to fight for attention thats when she became the way she is, but as you say its not me that has to deal with her other than when shes at my house (not like her mum does either) but the moment M copies her behaviour there will be a children ban in my house HAHA he does already copy her sometimes, when she gets told off and cried to her mum, M then starts crying and comes to me, ive not worked out if its him copying her, or hes getting upset at the fact she is 'crying' little does he know its all an act lol
When life hands you lemons, make grape juice then sit back and watch as the world wonders how you did it.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait ‘til tomorrow For babies grow up we've learnt to our sorrow, So quiet down cobwebs Dust go to sleep I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep