A friend of my daughter went to look at a house in a village that most people here think you need your head read to live in... it was on the market at 214,000 she offered 220,000 ( I think shes needs her head read)
They turned her down because the other bidder offered slightly more and her story ( reasons for wanting it) were not as good as another bidder...These people literally asked each bidder to give them the reason why they wanted the house...
A friend of my daughter went to look at a house in a village that most people here think you need your head read to live in... it was on the market at 214,000 she offered 220,000 ( I think shes needs her head read)
They turned her down because the other bidder offered slightly more and her story ( reasons for wanting it) were not as good as another bidder...These people literally asked each bidder to give them the reason why they wanted the house...
Asked them a reason? I would just be happy that they are offering more than the asking price.
A friend of my daughter went to look at a house in a village that most people here think you need your head read to live in... it was on the market at 214,000 she offered 220,000 ( I think shes needs her head read)
They turned her down because the other bidder offered slightly more and her story ( reasons for wanting it) were not as good as another bidder...These people literally asked each bidder to give them the reason why they wanted the house...
It is a norm in the San Francisco Bay Area to pay at least $50K over asking price ( depends on the area of course), some of the area will get $200-$400K over asking price.
Personal letter is a standard. This is one of letters we got from one of the prospective buyers. We did not sell the house to them.
I haven't moved much at all but almost having formal references for why you want to buy somewhere? It obviously comes up in general conversation and can probably be read between the lines in communication. Maybe things have changed as we have lived in our house for quite a while. It sounds like a seller's market.
A friend of my daughter went to look at a house in a village that most people here think you need your head read to live in... it was on the market at 214,000 she offered 220,000 ( I think shes needs her head read)
They turned her down because the other bidder offered slightly more and her story ( reasons for wanting it) were not as good as another bidder...These people literally asked each bidder to give them the reason why they wanted the house...
What?
I bet I could have come up with a better story.........
It is a norm in the San Francisco Bay Area to pay at least $50K over asking price ( depends on the area of course), some of the area will get $200-$400K over asking price.
Personal letter is a standard. This is one of letters we got from one of the prospective buyers. We did not sell the house to them.
Things have cool down in a certain area here.
Sorry but that makes me want to vomit.
I'm going to the supermarket today if I want a pork chop do I have to say *but I've loved this pig all my life. Please I need for the pigs sacrifice to mean something to me and so by eating this delicious pork chop I can truly make her part of myself allow her to live on in me...* ?
IMO Buying and selling a house is no different to buying and selling a loaf of bread. Someone wants me to spill my guts over a house it's not the house for me.
It is a norm in the San Francisco Bay Area to pay at least $50K over asking price ( depends on the area of course), some of the area will get $200-$400K over asking price.
Personal letter is a standard. This is one of letters we got from one of the prospective buyers. We did not sell the house to them.
Things have cool down in a certain area here.
If you really want to buy my house, offer me the most money, and save your ink, I couldn't care less.
- I ended up selling my house to the people I believed would take the best care of the house. I am very sentimental to every property I own. I also tend to sell to the people who have the same lifestyle as mine.
- In 2015, my husband got 7 offers for his house. He sold it to the second highest bidder because they had a 5 year old child and the wife was 5 month pregnant at the same time. He thought they should have the house asap.
- My sister and her husband were not the highest bidder for their house back in 2012 but they got the house because the owners graduated from the same university and they also had a son who went to the same medical school with my nephew.
Realtors also told me it's quite often that personal reasons are the deciding factor in the SF Bay area market.
It is a norm in the San Francisco Bay Area to pay at least $50K over asking price ( depends on the area of course), some of the area will get $200-$400K over asking price.
Personal letter is a standard. This is one of letters we got from one of the prospective buyers. We did not sell the house to them.
Things have cool down in a certain area here.
Sorry but that makes me want to vomit.
I'm going to the supermarket today if I want a pork chop do I have to say *but I've loved this pig all my life. Please I need for the pigs sacrifice to mean something to me and so by eating this delicious pork chop I can truly make her part of myself allow her to live on in me...* ?
IMO Buying and selling a house is no different to buying and selling a loaf of bread. Someone wants me to spill my guts over a house it's not the house for me.
I actually appreciated that they spent time to write that letter. Selling a property that we spent time to build and decorate is a very personal matter. Getting the highest bid is not necessarily important in this SF Bay Area market. For me, my house is not a piece of meat, it's a phase of my life as well as my family's.
We renovated and rebuilt our last house our reward was the fact that we received almost double what we paid for it when we did sell it.
I appreciate some people put their emotions into a house, for me it's bricks-and-mortar. I wouldn't write a letter like that because I find it personally degrading to go down on bended knee basically with a sob story so that someone will sell me a house, it's just not for me. But I realise Americans are obviously much more sentimental than us Dutch.
Though, the last house we bought was only sold to us because we had children.
The husband wanted to sell, she didn't. Their son had died there, and while she couldn't live there, she didn't want to sell it either. It wasn't even on the market. But she decided when she met our kids, that the house needed children again.
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I don't think it's any difference that a cover letter we send in with our resume for a job application or an interview to a prestigious school. Private schools where we have to pay ten of thousand of dollars for attendance require interview for both student applicants and parents. There is a reason why the Ivy Leagues and more prestigious schools such as Stanford, Duke, MIT..... require interview and personal essays.
People will do whatever it takes to get what they want, also buying a house sometime creates a personal or business connection. One of the places we own now belonged to a venture capitalist. We became friends and his firm has helped my connections raise millions for their businesses.
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Some people will do anything and some of us just think.... " such is life" what other people think and what motivates those people just doesn't move us. Things.... Are just not that important..
I don't think it's any difference that a cover letter we send in with our resume for a job application or an interview to a prestigious school. Private schools where we have to pay ten of thousand of dollars for attendance require interview for both student applicants and parents. There is a reason why the Ivy Leagues and more prestigious schools such as Stanford, Duke, MIT..... require interview and personal essays.
People will do whatever it takes to get what they want, also buying a house sometime creates a personal or business connection. One of the places we own now belonged to a venture capitalist. We became friends and his firm has helped my connections raise millions for their businesses.
I suppose as Cassie said, it's a cultural thing and just not what we are familiar with.
I don't think it's any difference that a cover letter we send in with our resume for a job application or an interview to a prestigious school. Private schools where we have to pay ten of thousand of dollars for attendance require interview for both student applicants and parents. There is a reason why the Ivy Leagues and more prestigious schools such as Stanford, Duke, MIT..... require interview and personal essays.
People will do whatever it takes to get what they want, also buying a house sometime creates a personal or business connection. One of the places we own now belonged to a venture capitalist. We became friends and his firm has helped my connections raise millions for their businesses.
I suppose as Cassie said, it's a cultural thing and just not what we are familiar with.
Actually, the other states are also surprise about this as well. This is more like the SF Bay Area thing.
I think it's weird to have to write a letter as to why you want a house... "TO LIVE IN...?" lol it's not like it's a living being that you want to ensure will go to a loving home.
I think it's weird to have to write a letter as to why you want a house... "TO LIVE IN...?" lol it's not like it's a living being that you want to ensure will go to a loving home.
Writing the letter on top of paying couple hundred thousands more, how about that?
I think it's weird to have to write a letter as to why you want a house... "TO LIVE IN...?" lol it's not like it's a living being that you want to ensure will go to a loving home.
Writing the letter on top of paying couple hundred thousands more, how about that?
lol yes, even worse! I'm paying extra to write someone an essay!? No thanks!
Writing the letter on top of paying couple hundred thousands more, how about that?
lol yes, even worse! I'm paying extra to write someone an essay!? No thanks!
They actually pay extra plus thinking they have to write the letter, I never write anything but I am open to talk to them if they want to meet us and talk to us.
lol yes, even worse! I'm paying extra to write someone an essay!? No thanks!
They actually pay extra plus thinking they have to write the letter, I never write anything but I am open to talk to them if they want to meet us and talk to us.
For all my 'it's just about the money' chat. We were really pleased that we genuinely liked the people who bought ours.
Just wondering why 10 months later, the grass is uncut, and no-one has done anything to keep up the maintenance let alone move in.
Houses cost a L O T of money, ours more so, and to buy it and leave it sitting is downright weird.
I don't think it's any difference that a cover letter we send in with our resume for a job application or an interview to a prestigious school. Private schools where we have to pay ten of thousand of dollars for attendance require interview for both student applicants and parents. There is a reason why the Ivy Leagues and more prestigious schools such as Stanford, Duke, MIT..... require interview and personal essays.
People will do whatever it takes to get what they want, also buying a house sometime creates a personal or business connection. One of the places we own now belonged to a venture capitalist. We became friends and his firm has helped my connections raise millions for their businesses.
It is the same here with jobs and top schools etc. I haven't hear of it for houses although there are application processes for renting and leased properties. Although it does get to predjudice and the like I do remember my brother in law mentioning undesirables in city areas. They lived in the city, Leicester, at the time, and, growing up there, his earlier life experiences were totally different to mine from a more rural area. It still did not mean letters of introduction but some people would not sell to minorities and many really complained about the degredation of the neighbourhood.
Here, at least in this Bay Area, the social economic issue is very prominent, I am not aware of the minority discrimination in this area or any other areas in the US. Money talks here. Typically and generally, it's the aggressive financial approach of the minority population such as the Asian people that drive everything, housing price, education admission at prestigious schools, leadership position at global corporation such as Microsolf, Google, Pepsico, Blackberry.
Why did people in that area discriminate against minority? is it the race issue or is it because the are poor?
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