In Need of Makeover

Hi there. I looked at the photos. I think those people who said too masculine are talking out of their backsides..

Take no notice.

OK, I see where you are coming from.

The hair style, colour and texture - keep that, it looks lovely.

The eyes, eyebrows, and nose - you can keep those too, they are just fine. Those eyes are a particlularly lovely colour.

The lips look fine as does the gentle, natural smile.

Your body shape. That looks healthy and perfectly natural. You look like someone who has got a nice shape, and who is not obsessed by their weight. But, who wants to look like a bean pole anyway? I certainly never met a man who wanted a stick thin girl either.

Your general all over look is good, though I wouldn't have matched the red skirt with that top. Sorry, that's as nasty as I can be about your pictures.

I was older than you when I went from grossly obese to slim, and I have maintained my weight for a good few years now. We do have a dieting thread. I have found it really helpful.

Welcome to the shorties club, we are a sub group on the forum lol, There are a few of us around your height. I am 5'2"

It’s just making me self-conscious that people on Reddit were telling me that, mainly from men. I want to be feminine and pretty like a regular woman!

Remember, men don't define what feminine is. If they did none of us would ever be up to their standards which are totally out of line. Do what makes you feel good. Your a woman, your feminine, don't listen to what men say. Be yourself and be happy. 

Thank you for your kind words. ❤️

Laura, you're perfectly lovely.

Pay no attention to those who are "brave" when hiding behind a computer screen, but wouldn't have the courage to be rude to your face.

The ones that flatter are often not any better.

"Hey, girly. You're cool. Wanna f***?"

A complete scattergun copy and paste. They haven't even bothered to use your name.

Incidentally, that sort of negative opinion, will result in at least a warning on this forum. Our target for this forum is that it will be pleasant. We don't tolerate such behaviour.

We give trolls the boot. Ain't nobody got time for that! I don't know why other forums allow themselves to turn into cesspools.


We're here to support each other

True, I am open to constructive criticism on ways to improve my looks however being downright rude is uncalled for.

I really can't disagree enough with this post.

There are a lot of crazies out there, and if people don't wish to have a go at them face to face, I can respect that. I am one myself, and I am still alive, and my nose has not been flattened since I realised this fact.

Maybe you should not be antagonising people online. But if they are putting themselves up for it. Then they have to learn to take the rough with the smooth, or do without. 

Besides which. Who draws the line? I have been doing forums since 2k, and I have learned a lot, and just because this site does not approve of such actions, why should every other site have to conform to our standards?

Live and let live.

Yup which is exactly the reason I took down Reddit. It wasn’t good for my mental health even though I did learn some valuable information from it.