I find NOT focussing on pain is a lot better than itemising, and discussing them. We have a rule in this house that you can only ask someone: "how are you?" once a day.
Keep being asked, just reminds you that you have good reason to be unhappy. Who wants to be unhappy?
It's not easy to not keep asking when they are obviously not well, or in pain. But it is the best way to help them.
Last Edit: Oct 20, 2023 9:27:51 GMT -5 by a_muppet
I find NOT focussing on pain is a lot better than itemising, and discussing them. We have a rule in this house that you can only ask someone: "how are you?" once a day.
Keep being asked, just reminds you that you have good reason to be unhappy. Who wants to be unhappy?
It's not easy to not keep asking when they are obviously not well, or in pain. But it's is the best way to help them.
When asked my friend often says if my knee didnt hurt Id be dancing.
There's actually loads wrong with her but she just gets on with things.
My right foot. Since the driving and walking on Friday The bit behind the toes ( transverse arch) has been swollen and painful. Im wearing my walking boots outside for support but any time my bare foot touches the ground its an ouch...
a_muppet: Ha, I just spotted you, Noeleena - sneaking in. ::Sgc7Hl4::
Nov 13, 2024 3:58:37 GMT -5
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TestDummyCO: WOF has creaky floors. ::mCOIty6::
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heatherly: ::Sgc7Hl4::
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jen: It's good to know you are still here Noeleena ::Sgc7Hl4::
Nov 14, 2024 3:39:22 GMT -5
Ɖσмιиιc ♰: creaking floors, you make me laugh, Cherry has good eyes huh?
Nov 14, 2024 21:25:03 GMT -5
noeleena: Thank you i do come in allmost every night ,just dont allways have some thing to say ,of cause you know i,m a spy....lol,s.
Nov 19, 2024 2:06:33 GMT -5
MaryContrary: lol hi noeleena!
Nov 19, 2024 5:58:54 GMT -5
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MaryContrary: she's like the wof elf on a shelf *giggles*
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