What do you want a man to understand about you? (G) Oct 24, 2022 5:38:09 GMT -5 Oochillyo likes this
Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2022 5:38:09 GMT -5
Hi, I'm married, have two boys and one girl, and it's from having a girl that I am even beginning to understand what a women/girl wants. How sad, right?
Well, can you explain to me, what women want?
I know you don't want to be treated as sex objects already. (if you do, please don't tell me)
What do you want men to understand about you?
Like, we just want to be loved, or something like that?
For example, if you had a son and your son asked you, "mom, what does my girlfriend even want? I don't get it"
What would you say? I'm not gonna judge you, I want to know what a mom would say.
My mom said that they wanted to be treated right, ok, but I don't remember much.
My dad told me to stay away from bad types (but somehow I was always pulled towards them)
I know the golden rule (do unto others as you would have them do unto you).
I have heard jokingly and serious that "men are stupid"
Well, yes, I'm Mr. Stupid, and I want to be smart, so I am asking you who feel bold and can share and don't be afraid to tell me like it is. Tell me how a man hurt you and how she "should have" done x or y, so I know what you mean, if you need to explain it.
I want to think of women in absolute purity, as souls, with feelings, not things, as people, smart, and not perfect, but want to be loved and accepted. Because that is what I want for my daughter. I don't want some horny dog (like a young version of my dark self kind of boy) to take advantage of her and I don't want her to learn ways to "lure" a man in order to get what she wants (like some women who has sex with rich old guys to get his money).
I'll be honest, when I grew up and heard guys talk about women and how they "got some", I was not jealous, I promise, I was upset that they considered them so cheap like that, like they just sweet talk to get sex. W T Fudge man? I never like it when guys around me did that, because I was not like that, although I did have a dark past, it was not like that, but I'm not better, just saying that I don't like it when guys do that. It pisses me off. I don't care even if the women wanted that, I am still kinda pissed off.