Post by Popcorn&Candy on Jul 13, 2022 7:02:41 GMT -5
A strange question, but do you choose for yourself?
I try to, although I realize I have responsibilities and must face them. However, I run my own finances. I work for myself. I choose what I want to eat everyday... The list goes on.
Over to you!
Last Edit: Jul 13, 2022 7:03:18 GMT -5 by Popcorn&Candy
I usually end up choosing for myself but it's nice to relax every now and again and let others do the choosing. Choosing for them is good too but not always easy.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Jul 16, 2022 1:46:44 GMT -5
I choose for myself within reason. Because there are rules for a reason: to protect everyone and keep society safe. I wouldn't choose for myself by stealing a Mars bar or robbing an old lady crossing the street.
As for relationships: I will not tolerate violence. I would choose to leave the relationship once the man became violent. I wouldn't choose to get revenge, though: instead I'd find a new relationship where the man respects me and actually loves himself. Because I do believe violent men have low self esteem and don't really love themselves. Plus, he mustn't love the woman anymore: like Johnny Depp didn't love Amber anymore. Instead of a girlfriend, she became a punchbag.
Anyhow, I choose who I date and don't date. And - again - I won't tolerate violence.
Post by Rebecca Jo on Jul 18, 2022 15:13:21 GMT -5
I choose for myself and sometimes find I've chosen something that works for the kids too. Most recent example of that: Mum's sorting through a lot of items she's stored for years and will finally get rid of things. She asked me to come look through for anything I wanted. When it came to the toys, I grabbed Hello Kitty items for me and also a dollhouse. I got home and the oldest said, "I loved that dollhouse!" So, I'll share it for now.
At the end of the day, yes.. Even if I am letting someone else decide for me, that is still my choice to let them do that.. otherwise, I'd choose for myself lol
I usually have what I like for brekkie and lunch. Tea is different. Since it's only a few of us here, we only cook a "family dinner" every other night. Otherwise it's whatever I want. That said, even when it's whatever I want I ask my mum and nan if they are interested in what I am making/ordering and they do the same.
I usually have what I like for brekkie and lunch. Tea is different. Since it's only a few of us here, we only cook a "family dinner" every other night. Otherwise it's whatever I want. That said, even when it's whatever I want I ask my mum and nan if they are interested in what I am making/ordering and they do the same.
There used to be a really good comedy of three generations of women living together. Prunella Scales was in the middle.
After Henry it was called. Pru was the widow of Henry. I think it was 80's so it was half new wave, and half traditional comedy.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Aug 4, 2022 8:51:50 GMT -5
On the whole I eat what I want. But not always! My sister may suggest an Indian takeaway or a pork and rice dish. Sometimes I get to choose what my family have for dinner, but usually it is my sister that decides. She and my dad go food shopping weekly, so it makes sense. I love my sister's food anyway: there are such a variety of dishes, it never gets boring.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Aug 6, 2022 14:55:44 GMT -5
No one I know gets their way every day of their life! Compromise is part of life. No one gets everything they want: I get what I want mostly. But certainly not always! But that doesn't bother me, because I believe everyone has the right to choose for themselves.
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