Post by noella on Mar 7, 2022 5:44:15 GMT -5
Hello girls!!
So it's a first time when I'm searching help on internet. It's a first time, when I don't understand men!! Maybe you can help me.
I met this guy last august on danting app. He was just divorced after long time in marriage. We started spending some time together. I didin't expext anthyng serious because I knew that after marriage we will not want to jump into new relations so soon. Time we spend was fun. We dated about two months, then he dissapeared. He didin't text me, I didin't text him first. Last time when we spoke, I wanted to meet, he was alone in home, and just said that he tired, and maybe next time. So lived on, forget about him, and thought that he found some other girl, and this friendship is over. But afer a month he wrote me. Asked how I am holding. Some chat about nothing. And again 1 month silence, afer month he write me again. Again small talk. We once met watch a movie, and that's it. He wrote me again at the begining of this year. Told me that he dated other girls, and that no new relations worked for him. He was prepared jis home for some girl to celebrate new years wiht her, baught champagne, glasses and so on, bu she doesnt showed up and left him alone. Told me, that he kind a wanted some serious relations, but not know with who. He started texting every day, asking when I have free time to meet, stared asking what we do in the weekends, started seen each other musch often. One evening, when I was with my girls at the city, he started to inviting me/us in the village away from the city. So he called me a cab, paid for it and waited me. I got inside the house, where was all his family, celebrating his sister birthday. He introduces me to everyone, we spend all evening and the next day. I was confused why he ask me to come, where all his family was. We never been so close, we never talked about our relationhip, where its leading or we want to be togeher. Always was same talk from him "dont think about future" "we'll see whats happens" and so on. So this invitation to meet his family blown my mind. For the second I thought that its getting serious. But after that, it's been 2 weeks maybe, we met 1 time, after that time, he stopped texting me again. Couple of time i texted him asking how was hos day, how hes doing. Couple of messages and he didint reply. So i stopped texting him at all. Its been half a year after we met for the first time, and this on and off relations very weard. I dont think about our future, or secretly dont look for a wedding dress, you know. Not thinking about him, not obsessing, if he doesnt want something serious with me, its his choice. But I don't understand why he do this? One day I'm with his family, and other he doesn't text me, or if text, i feel unwanted. We hangout aound this time when was valentines day. On that day he not only make some plants for us, but even dont texted me. Texeted next day after valentines day
If I'm trying plansomething or suggest something or starting texting every day, he stepped back. But whe he suggest something then we meet, and spend time. When he doing first step, then looks like he wanting to be with me, spend time, and that maybe we getting serious.One day we very close, and the next day looks like I just met him.
What the hel?? What he thinking? why hes doing it??? Heeeeeelp
So it's a first time when I'm searching help on internet. It's a first time, when I don't understand men!! Maybe you can help me.
I met this guy last august on danting app. He was just divorced after long time in marriage. We started spending some time together. I didin't expext anthyng serious because I knew that after marriage we will not want to jump into new relations so soon. Time we spend was fun. We dated about two months, then he dissapeared. He didin't text me, I didin't text him first. Last time when we spoke, I wanted to meet, he was alone in home, and just said that he tired, and maybe next time. So lived on, forget about him, and thought that he found some other girl, and this friendship is over. But afer a month he wrote me. Asked how I am holding. Some chat about nothing. And again 1 month silence, afer month he write me again. Again small talk. We once met watch a movie, and that's it. He wrote me again at the begining of this year. Told me that he dated other girls, and that no new relations worked for him. He was prepared jis home for some girl to celebrate new years wiht her, baught champagne, glasses and so on, bu she doesnt showed up and left him alone. Told me, that he kind a wanted some serious relations, but not know with who. He started texting every day, asking when I have free time to meet, stared asking what we do in the weekends, started seen each other musch often. One evening, when I was with my girls at the city, he started to inviting me/us in the village away from the city. So he called me a cab, paid for it and waited me. I got inside the house, where was all his family, celebrating his sister birthday. He introduces me to everyone, we spend all evening and the next day. I was confused why he ask me to come, where all his family was. We never been so close, we never talked about our relationhip, where its leading or we want to be togeher. Always was same talk from him "dont think about future" "we'll see whats happens" and so on. So this invitation to meet his family blown my mind. For the second I thought that its getting serious. But after that, it's been 2 weeks maybe, we met 1 time, after that time, he stopped texting me again. Couple of time i texted him asking how was hos day, how hes doing. Couple of messages and he didint reply. So i stopped texting him at all. Its been half a year after we met for the first time, and this on and off relations very weard. I dont think about our future, or secretly dont look for a wedding dress, you know. Not thinking about him, not obsessing, if he doesnt want something serious with me, its his choice. But I don't understand why he do this? One day I'm with his family, and other he doesn't text me, or if text, i feel unwanted. We hangout aound this time when was valentines day. On that day he not only make some plants for us, but even dont texted me. Texeted next day after valentines day
If I'm trying plansomething or suggest something or starting texting every day, he stepped back. But whe he suggest something then we meet, and spend time. When he doing first step, then looks like he wanting to be with me, spend time, and that maybe we getting serious.One day we very close, and the next day looks like I just met him. What the hel?? What he thinking? why hes doing it??? Heeeeeelp
