Post by angel on Sept 19, 2021 13:12:54 GMT -5
Hey ladies,
I'm angel, great to be a part of this forum community. I have been struggling with some issues for a while,and I decided to get help because I'm driving myself insane.
So my main issues lately I've seen a lot of hair shedding and falling, I had really thick hair and now it's thinning so much.i do have low vitamin b levels for b12 and b6.no thyroid issues tho. Ladies what can I do? Should I not be using different shampoos, stick to one, I use shea moisture, strengthen and restore, and since my scalp gets really oily, I do a lemon water rinse and it's been helping.i can go 2 3 days between washes and hair looks good. No oiliness or smell. I also try n do oil massages before washing.
How often do you guys wash your hair, like every other day or skip few days? And do u change ur hair products, or just stick to one shampoo n conditioner? And do u use after products like leave ins or serums oils.. I feel dt wld weigh ur hair down more??or is it okay?? Sometimes I skip out on conditioner and just oil my ends and rinse that out under the water too.
What can I do if hair from roots is oily n gets a lil odor here n there at times?
Ok so other thing was I suffer from a lot of hair on my lower back and stomach area, I wanted to know if that was normal?? And light hairs on my neck too under jawline area.theyre nor so dark, but if u come up close I think ppl can see em. On my back It's evenly spread all over my back but more darker hairs on the lower bottom as opposed to top from shoulders to mid waist area.i get so self conscious, I shave and epilate, with epilating I noticed scars start to develop after ingrowns. So now I shave. I'm so worried my future partner will judge me or be like why do u have that.imagine going out and you have to worry about oh no have to shave everything haha. It's hell. I thght abt getting hair inhibitor lotion but dt scares me a lil, anything dt keeps ur hair from coming up can't be healthy right?? Do u guys know wht I can do besides lasor. Any other way to tackle dis. Or shld I accept it n let my SO know as well like look I'm jus hairy. If he finds dt repulsive den I guess he's not the one.
Another thing was the Scarring as I mentioned above.how can I lighten scars? I use vitamin e and aloe, dts been helping a lil.
Also I've been trying to use healthier products, so I changed my deodorant from antiperspirant to a natural non paraben non aluminum one.but problem is I tend to sweat a lil more and although I don't smell any odors, it gets damp under my arms.is dt smtn I shld be worried abt?or is dt fine. Do u guys get damp sometimes bcus I asked my sisters, they said they don't.i guess my heavy sweaters can help. Another trick I try is put powder over my deo, that helps sometimes to keep it dry!
I know this was a lot.. I'm Going through so much lately and I just needed my ladies advice to keep me sane.i know some issues might not sound too overbearing,but this makes me cry.
Please help me guys! Tell me if I'm paying too much attention? I had nowhere to go, my doc doesn't help much either or my dermatologist. I'm turning to you, my sisters!! Please help me out.
I'm angel, great to be a part of this forum community. I have been struggling with some issues for a while,and I decided to get help because I'm driving myself insane.
So my main issues lately I've seen a lot of hair shedding and falling, I had really thick hair and now it's thinning so much.i do have low vitamin b levels for b12 and b6.no thyroid issues tho. Ladies what can I do? Should I not be using different shampoos, stick to one, I use shea moisture, strengthen and restore, and since my scalp gets really oily, I do a lemon water rinse and it's been helping.i can go 2 3 days between washes and hair looks good. No oiliness or smell. I also try n do oil massages before washing.
How often do you guys wash your hair, like every other day or skip few days? And do u change ur hair products, or just stick to one shampoo n conditioner? And do u use after products like leave ins or serums oils.. I feel dt wld weigh ur hair down more??or is it okay?? Sometimes I skip out on conditioner and just oil my ends and rinse that out under the water too.
What can I do if hair from roots is oily n gets a lil odor here n there at times?
Ok so other thing was I suffer from a lot of hair on my lower back and stomach area, I wanted to know if that was normal?? And light hairs on my neck too under jawline area.theyre nor so dark, but if u come up close I think ppl can see em. On my back It's evenly spread all over my back but more darker hairs on the lower bottom as opposed to top from shoulders to mid waist area.i get so self conscious, I shave and epilate, with epilating I noticed scars start to develop after ingrowns. So now I shave. I'm so worried my future partner will judge me or be like why do u have that.imagine going out and you have to worry about oh no have to shave everything haha. It's hell. I thght abt getting hair inhibitor lotion but dt scares me a lil, anything dt keeps ur hair from coming up can't be healthy right?? Do u guys know wht I can do besides lasor. Any other way to tackle dis. Or shld I accept it n let my SO know as well like look I'm jus hairy. If he finds dt repulsive den I guess he's not the one.
Another thing was the Scarring as I mentioned above.how can I lighten scars? I use vitamin e and aloe, dts been helping a lil.
Also I've been trying to use healthier products, so I changed my deodorant from antiperspirant to a natural non paraben non aluminum one.but problem is I tend to sweat a lil more and although I don't smell any odors, it gets damp under my arms.is dt smtn I shld be worried abt?or is dt fine. Do u guys get damp sometimes bcus I asked my sisters, they said they don't.i guess my heavy sweaters can help. Another trick I try is put powder over my deo, that helps sometimes to keep it dry!
I know this was a lot.. I'm Going through so much lately and I just needed my ladies advice to keep me sane.i know some issues might not sound too overbearing,but this makes me cry.
Please help me guys! Tell me if I'm paying too much attention? I had nowhere to go, my doc doesn't help much either or my dermatologist. I'm turning to you, my sisters!! Please help me out.