Post by crazycrandi on Mar 17, 2021 14:10:28 GMT -5
Well I am just a mom going threw a rough time right now, maybe a mid life crisis, but who knows, I have a son in college, he is 18 and still at home, good and bad days but lately been good, I also have a daughter who is 17, she is a junior in high school and she too has her ups and downs right now its a down.
I know I messed up long ago by being to much of a friend with her when I should have been more of a mom, I mean definitely still a mother just friends too, that make sense?
Well a few hard years and lots to overcome but my daughter decides she wants to move in with her biological father who is behind in child support over $19,000.00 and never comes and gets her but she found a ride over there and there she sits and all because when she brought home 4 F's on her report card AGAIN she got a talking to, when she says I should have been proud of her since there werent as low as the last F's were on the last report card... So non the less I have been pretty much in tears since she has been gone, about 6 days now, I love my daughter so much and she needs to be at home but she isnt. anyway as I am dying inside my husband and everyone around me is saying to be tough and dont let her see my weakness cause that is what she wants so I havent, when texting I try not to show to much as far as the emotions I am feeling.
Well yesterday she text me after a great day full of happy texts and asks me if I can come and get her tomorrow and bring her to work, well I had to tell her no, and then she went off on me again. But she is the one who decided to move in with this man with no working vehicle and no decent job, why would I go out of my way, if she was still home it would be a given. So now I am just making this situation about me and having myself a pity party apparently and I dont really love her and just want to see hr fail!
Ugh this is so hard for me, I feel I have lost my daughter and these will be times that I can not ever get back... Thanks for listening
I know I messed up long ago by being to much of a friend with her when I should have been more of a mom, I mean definitely still a mother just friends too, that make sense?
Well a few hard years and lots to overcome but my daughter decides she wants to move in with her biological father who is behind in child support over $19,000.00 and never comes and gets her but she found a ride over there and there she sits and all because when she brought home 4 F's on her report card AGAIN she got a talking to, when she says I should have been proud of her since there werent as low as the last F's were on the last report card... So non the less I have been pretty much in tears since she has been gone, about 6 days now, I love my daughter so much and she needs to be at home but she isnt. anyway as I am dying inside my husband and everyone around me is saying to be tough and dont let her see my weakness cause that is what she wants so I havent, when texting I try not to show to much as far as the emotions I am feeling.
Well yesterday she text me after a great day full of happy texts and asks me if I can come and get her tomorrow and bring her to work, well I had to tell her no, and then she went off on me again. But she is the one who decided to move in with this man with no working vehicle and no decent job, why would I go out of my way, if she was still home it would be a given. So now I am just making this situation about me and having myself a pity party apparently and I dont really love her and just want to see hr fail!
Ugh this is so hard for me, I feel I have lost my daughter and these will be times that I can not ever get back... Thanks for listening
You wil notice you are getting 'likes'? You have probably already worked out that they mean 'we support you' and they certainly don't mean that we are enjoying your difficulties. 
