Post by Popcorn&Candy on Nov 14, 2021 7:04:37 GMT -5
People have seen me as being soft but are surprised that I am more confident than I appear. I guess I am not a braggart that shouts her opinion across the room: I am more quiet and reserved. But I know my own mind and don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I don't act the diva or try to control people. I am more of a thinker than a doer.
I am also incredibly nice and can be fun, too. I am very tactful and emotive. I've never bullied anyone. I am never cruel. I do believe I am part angel/part human. I just love caring about myself and the world. This can make others jealous and take advantage of my niceness. BUT I know their game: they are losers themselves.
I might be in trouble when I get older. I am basically a shy person in social situations now and have always been.
I am pretty much the same. Social functions can be a disaster for me. I tend to be far more open online than I ever am in person although I am chatty on a on to one basis but I think more formal occasions are my problem. They can sometimes be so false which is not me, so I never learnt.
I might be in trouble when I get older. I am basically a shy person in social situations now and have always been.
I am pretty much the same. Social functions can be a disaster for me. I tend to be far more open online than I ever am in person although I am chatty on a on to one basis but I think more formal occasions are my problem. They can sometimes be so false which is not me, so I never learnt.
I tend to be quiet when i don't know the people that I am around but I do open up more when I do know them.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Nov 15, 2021 11:14:46 GMT -5
There is such a thing as quiet confidence: you don't have to yell your opinion across a room to appear confident. Plus, why shout when you can whisper?
Anyhow, being quiet is often misjudged as fear or social anxiety. But I know plenty of quiet people who have the confidence of iron. There is nothing wrong with being loud, but that doesn't mean a person has to be loud to be respected.
I am pretty much the same. Social functions can be a disaster for me. I tend to be far more open online than I ever am in person although I am chatty on a on to one basis but I think more formal occasions are my problem. They can sometimes be so false which is not me, so I never learnt.
I tend to be quiet when i don't know the people that I am around but I do open up more when I do know them.
Same... my SO probably wishes I wasn't so comfortable with him because I can talk his ear off lol
I tend to be quiet when i don't know the people that I am around but I do open up more when I do know them.
Same... my SO probably wishes I wasn't so comfortable with him because I can talk his ear off lol
oh, how about those people who chat, and won't stop because they reckon their tongue will fall out if they don't keep exercising it.
Our diy guy once brought his wife round, while he was working. She was supposed to be passing him tools but just started talking with her cup of tea, and never stopped till about an hour after he had finished.
Go on, ask me anything you like about driving a tiny van around for her employers. I know it all.
Same... my SO probably wishes I wasn't so comfortable with him because I can talk his ear off lol
oh, how about those people who chat, and won't stop because they reckon their tongue will fall out if they don't keep exercising it.
Our diy guy once brought his wife round, while he was working. She was supposed to be passing him tools but just started talking with her cup of tea, and never stopped till about an hour after he had finished.
Go on, ask me anything you like about driving a tiny van around for her employers. I know it all.
I could never be like that around someone I'm just meeting ever lol or well.. I need to have a topic to discuss first. I'm not always someone who just talks just to talk.. something has to be on my brain, and sometimes I get on my soap box.
Surprisingly, my husband and I have few friends. It gets rough when just the sight of him irritates me.
We don't have many friends nearby (mine all live in different states now)... and I also have days where everything my SO does irritates me. It can feel lonely when that happens because I don't even have family near me here. It's pretty much just the two of us hours away from everyone... the closest are his family and maybe two of his friends about one hour away.
Most of the time I don't mind it, though, because I like being alone a majority of the time anyway.
Surprisingly, my husband and I have few friends. It gets rough when just the sight of him irritates me.
We don't have many friends nearby (mine all live in different states now)... and I also have days where everything my SO does irritates me. It can feel lonely when that happens because I don't even have family near me here. It's pretty much just the two of us hours away from everyone... the closest are his family and maybe two of his friends about one hour away.
Most of the time I don't mind it, though, because I like being alone a majority of the time anyway.
I am comfortable with my husband, He is the best friend I have now, it has to be considering what we have been through together. But girlfriends? All in France, the four of us talk every week. We have known each other since 8 years old. Most of my good friends in America are older white male and my husband's friends.
I am comfortable with my husband, He is the best friend I have now, it has to be considering what we have been through together. But girlfriends? All in France, the four of us talk every week. We have known each other since 8 years old. Most of my good friends in America are older white male and my husband's friends.
I am Asian but I don't think Asian people here really care to be friends with me, not sure why. My husband, on another hand, is a magnet to Asian people. He can speak a little Chinese, they find it amusing, I guess.
Most of my friends used to be caucasian ( from where i grew up, rural New Hampshire) as well but that has changed since moving here to Florida where a large number of my new friends are Hispanic.
I'd love to speak Chinese: such a beautiful language.
Spoken I find it can be choppy and aggressive but sung is a whole different thing. I was lucky enough to hear a traditional singer and her song moved me to tears...
Most of my friends used to be caucasian ( from where i grew up, rural New Hampshire) as well but that has changed since moving here to Florida where a large number of my new friends are Hispanic.
A lot of my best friends at school were hispanics. That was from being brought up in a catholic school.
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