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Hello. I'm a 37-year-old, American (from the Southeast) lesbian who is currently unemployed and bored out of my mind. I joined Reddit in early 2019 which was a huge mistake because it's not women-friendly. I've been searching for online women communities since Thanksgiving. Seems to be hard to find any, especially if you're a woman who is childfree and unmarried and gay. Hopefully, this place will be my new online home. Happy Holidays! 💜

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Nov 30, 2020 22:35:43 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

Hello. I'm a 37-year-old, American (from the Southeast) lesbian who is currently unemployed and bored out of my mind. I joined Reddit in early 2019 which was a huge mistake because it's not women-friendly. I've been searching for online women communities since Thanksgiving. Seems to be hard to find any, especially if you're a woman who is childfree and unmarried and gay. Hopefully, this place will be my new online home. Happy Holidays! 💜

Nice to meet you. I'm 54 and also American. Alone by choice and not gay but it's ok that you are. I too was on Reddit and I hated it. The group here is small but super nice. I too am childless. I work in healthcare in the food service dept. Hope you like it here.

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Nov 30, 2020 23:03:23 GMT -5 @marci said:

Nov 30, 2020 22:35:43 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

Hello. I'm a 37-year-old, American (from the Southeast) lesbian who is currently unemployed and bored out of my mind. I joined Reddit in early 2019 which was a huge mistake because it's not women-friendly. I've been searching for online women communities since Thanksgiving. Seems to be hard to find any, especially if you're a woman who is childfree and unmarried and gay. Hopefully, this place will be my new online home. Happy Holidays! 💜

Nice to meet you. I'm 54 and also American. Alone by choice and not gay but it's ok that you are. I too was on Reddit and I hated it. The group here is small but super nice. I too am childless. I work in healthcare in the food service dept. Hope you like it here.

Thank you! Hey, this is OT but I always ask this: what are you currently watching/streaming? Lol it's a good way to potentially watch something great! TiA

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Nov 30, 2020 23:49:07 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

Nov 30, 2020 23:03:23 GMT -5 @marci said:

Nice to meet you. I'm 54 and also American. Alone by choice and not gay but it's ok that you are. I too was on Reddit and I hated it. The group here is small but super nice. I too am childless. I work in healthcare in the food service dept. Hope you like it here.

Thank you! Hey, this is OT but I always ask this: what are you currently watching/streaming? Lol it's a good way to potentially watch something great! TiA

If you want to share tv and film opinions, good or bad, here is ideal.

womenonlyforum.com/thread/959/tv-film?page=4

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Hi noblelesbian

I saw your nickname pop up on another forum yesterday too..

Im Cass, Cassie Cassandra what you will.. Im UK born but now in The Netherlands.

Feel free to jump in on any thread the more the merrier..

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Hi noblelesbian, good of you to join us. Our tradition here is to use christian names. It doesn't have to be your real one, just one we can share.

cherry x

I'm gender nonconforming and prefer Noble. Noble is the real name of an old friend I greatly admired. If I need to prove I am a woman (mind you, I am a masculine woman), I'll do so.

Hello Cherry, and thank you, btw. 🤗

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Dec 1, 2020 1:28:27 GMT -5 a_muppet said:

Nov 30, 2020 23:49:07 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

Thank you! Hey, this is OT but I always ask this: what are you currently watching/streaming? Lol it's a good way to potentially watch something great! TiA

If you want to share tv and film opinions, good or bad, here is ideal.

womenonlyforum.com/thread/959/tv-film?page=4

Thank you. 🤗

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Dec 1, 2020 4:37:47 GMT -5 cassie said:

Hi noblelesbian

I saw your nickname pop up on another forum yesterday too..

Im Cass, Cassie Cassandra what you will.. Im UK born but now in The Netherlands.

Feel free to jump in on any thread the more the merrier..

Hello Cassie. Thank you. Yeah, I was an old member of that other place. It's not the same anymore.

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Dec 1, 2020 6:10:36 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

Dec 1, 2020 4:37:47 GMT -5 cassie said:

Hi noblelesbian

I saw your nickname pop up on another forum yesterday too..

Im Cass, Cassie Cassandra what you will.. Im UK born but now in The Netherlands.

Feel free to jump in on any thread the more the merrier..

Hello Cassie. Thank you. Yeah, I was an old member of that other place. Iht's not the same anymore.

Indeed... I think the average age is about 16 I feel like a grandma there but it's nice to chat with with people.

BTW ...Did I know you when you were a member there?

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Hope you don't mind a question Noble but I'm not familiar with how this gender stuff works so I have a question. If you are gender non-conforming how is it you're a lesbian because the definition of non-conforming would be a bit inconsistent with that wouldn't it?

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Dec 1, 2020 6:07:51 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

Dec 1, 2020 0:58:04 GMT -5 a_muppet said:

Hi noblelesbian, good of you to join us. Our tradition here is to use christian names. It doesn't have to be your real one, just one we can share.

cherry x

I'm gender nonconforming and prefer Noble. Noble is the real name of an old friend I greatly admired. If I need to prove I am a woman (mind you, I am a masculine woman), I'll do so.

Hello Cherry, and thank you, btw. 🤗

Hi Noble, I don't see gender as a binary, and I am sure there is a little of each in us all.

We are not too strict about who comes here, just as long as they are women in their hearts.

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Dec 1, 2020 15:26:58 GMT -5 @marci said:

I'm so confused.

It's easy really just accept everybody as the person they present to you.

As long as they are nice honest people it really doesn't matter how they identify themselves who they sleep with what colour their tie is or how many earrings they have.

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I just read that the actor formerly known as Ellen Page will now be known as Elliot Page.

I hope that he feels happy in his identity and continues to get roles as he did as a woman.
I do feel it's unfair for transgender people to continuously have to state that they are transgender, why is it anybody else's business but theirs and their partner?

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Dec 1, 2020 7:04:05 GMT -5 cassie said:

Dec 1, 2020 6:10:36 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

Hello Cassie. Thank you. Yeah, I was an old member of that other place. Iht's not the same anymore.

Indeed... I think the average age is about 16 I feel like a grandma there but it's nice to chat with with people.

BTW ...Did I know you when you were a member there?

🤔 I doubt it. I only commented in general threads such as IWTSS (I want to say something). I am known as AAG (AboutAGirl).

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Dec 1, 2020 9:16:33 GMT -5 @marci said:

Hope you don't mind a question Noble but I'm not familiar with how this gender stuff works so I have a question. If you are gender non-conforming how is it you're a lesbian because the definition of non-conforming would be a bit inconsistent with that wouldn't it?

Gender nonconforming basically means I'm not stereotypically feminine. I am every bit of a female/woman. My real name is Lisa which I dislike because it doesn't suit me. I am not transgender/nonbinary. I am a cisgender, masculine lesbian (i.e. butch). I don't wear makeup, dresses, heels, etc. I don't bake (although a British friend got me into "Bake Off") nor do anything traditionally feminine. But I am a biological woman.

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Dec 1, 2020 11:41:15 GMT -5 a_muppet said:

Dec 1, 2020 6:07:51 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

I'm gender nonconforming and prefer Noble. Noble is the real name of an old friend I greatly admired. If I need to prove I am a woman (mind you, I am a masculine woman), I'll do so.

Hello Cherry, and thank you, btw. 🤗

Hi Noble, I don't see gender as a binary, and I am sure there is a little of each in us all.

We are not too strict about who comes here, just as long as they are women in their hearts.

Thanks. I am a woman though lol I just don't conform to feminine beauty standards. I don't shave nor anything like that though so I am mistaken as a man.

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Dec 1, 2020 17:06:27 GMT -5 @marci said:

I have another question now but that's ok. LOL

No problem. Ask whatever is on your mind. I understand the confusion and will try my best to explain.

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TBH Noble, most of the threads are just chat about this that and the next thing. The girly typ chat is here, clothes, heels, etc but it is not why we are all here. It does not define us.

I feel you will fit in fine.

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Dec 1, 2020 18:23:44 GMT -5 a_muppet said:

TBH Noble, most of the threads are just chat about this that and the next thing. The girly typ chat is here, clothes, heels, etc but it is not why we are all here. It does not define us.

I feel you will fit in fine.

Hey I'm used to it! I was just explaining gender nonconformity (as a woman) to marci.

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Dec 1, 2020 20:30:14 GMT -5 @marci said:

Something one has to understand about me is that I don't know much about these things and I have a curious mind. I apologize.

No need to apologize! I apologize for bringing it up honestly. The using a Christian name thing caught me off guard (I've never seen it requested anywhere else lol), and I thought that explaining why I prefer a unisex/masculine name, on a women's forum, was necessary. I likely just don't fit in here, which is okay. I recorded a video to properly introduce myself. imgur.com/a/0aTq4M8 ...be warned, I am likely different from everyone here!

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Dec 1, 2020 21:08:24 GMT -5 noblelesbian said:

Dec 1, 2020 20:30:14 GMT -5 @marci said:

Something one has to understand about me is that I don't know much about these things and I have a curious mind. I apologize.

No need to apologize! I apologize for bringing it up honestly. The using a Christian name thing caught me off guard (I've never seen it requested anywhere else lol), and I thought that explaining why I prefer a unisex/masculine name, on a women's forum, was necessary. I likely just don't fit in here, which is okay. I recorded a video to properly introduce myself. imgur.com/a/0aTq4M8 ...be warned, I am likely different from everyone here!

Cute...you have a great laugh

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