Post by noblelesbian on Nov 30, 2020 22:35:43 GMT -5
Hello. I'm a 37-year-old, American (from the Southeast) lesbian who is currently unemployed and bored out of my mind. I joined Reddit in early 2019 which was a huge mistake because it's not women-friendly. I've been searching for online women communities since Thanksgiving. Seems to be hard to find any, especially if you're a woman who is childfree and unmarried and gay. Hopefully, this place will be my new online home. Happy Holidays! 💜
Hello. I'm a 37-year-old, American (from the Southeast) lesbian who is currently unemployed and bored out of my mind. I joined Reddit in early 2019 which was a huge mistake because it's not women-friendly. I've been searching for online women communities since Thanksgiving. Seems to be hard to find any, especially if you're a woman who is childfree and unmarried and gay. Hopefully, this place will be my new online home. Happy Holidays! 💜
Nice to meet you. I'm 54 and also American. Alone by choice and not gay but it's ok that you are. I too was on Reddit and I hated it. The group here is small but super nice. I too am childless. I work in healthcare in the food service dept. Hope you like it here.
Hello. I'm a 37-year-old, American (from the Southeast) lesbian who is currently unemployed and bored out of my mind. I joined Reddit in early 2019 which was a huge mistake because it's not women-friendly. I've been searching for online women communities since Thanksgiving. Seems to be hard to find any, especially if you're a woman who is childfree and unmarried and gay. Hopefully, this place will be my new online home. Happy Holidays! 💜
Nice to meet you. I'm 54 and also American. Alone by choice and not gay but it's ok that you are. I too was on Reddit and I hated it. The group here is small but super nice. I too am childless. I work in healthcare in the food service dept. Hope you like it here.
Thank you! Hey, this is OT but I always ask this: what are you currently watching/streaming? Lol it's a good way to potentially watch something great! TiA
Nice to meet you. I'm 54 and also American. Alone by choice and not gay but it's ok that you are. I too was on Reddit and I hated it. The group here is small but super nice. I too am childless. I work in healthcare in the food service dept. Hope you like it here.
Thank you! Hey, this is OT but I always ask this: what are you currently watching/streaming? Lol it's a good way to potentially watch something great! TiA
If you want to share tv and film opinions, good or bad, here is ideal.
Hi noblelesbian, good of you to join us. Our tradition here is to use christian names. It doesn't have to be your real one, just one we can share.
cherry x
I'm gender nonconforming and prefer Noble. Noble is the real name of an old friend I greatly admired. If I need to prove I am a woman (mind you, I am a masculine woman), I'll do so.
Thank you! Hey, this is OT but I always ask this: what are you currently watching/streaming? Lol it's a good way to potentially watch something great! TiA
If you want to share tv and film opinions, good or bad, here is ideal.
Hope you don't mind a question Noble but I'm not familiar with how this gender stuff works so I have a question. If you are gender non-conforming how is it you're a lesbian because the definition of non-conforming would be a bit inconsistent with that wouldn't it?
Hi noblelesbian, good of you to join us. Our tradition here is to use christian names. It doesn't have to be your real one, just one we can share.
cherry x
I'm gender nonconforming and prefer Noble. Noble is the real name of an old friend I greatly admired. If I need to prove I am a woman (mind you, I am a masculine woman), I'll do so.
Hello Cherry, and thank you, btw. 🤗
Hi Noble, I don't see gender as a binary, and I am sure there is a little of each in us all.
We are not too strict about who comes here, just as long as they are women in their hearts.
It's easy really just accept everybody as the person they present to you.
As long as they are nice honest people it really doesn't matter how they identify themselves who they sleep with what colour their tie is or how many earrings they have.
I just read that the actor formerly known as Ellen Page will now be known as Elliot Page.
I hope that he feels happy in his identity and continues to get roles as he did as a woman. I do feel it's unfair for transgender people to continuously have to state that they are transgender, why is it anybody else's business but theirs and their partner?
Hope you don't mind a question Noble but I'm not familiar with how this gender stuff works so I have a question. If you are gender non-conforming how is it you're a lesbian because the definition of non-conforming would be a bit inconsistent with that wouldn't it?
Gender nonconforming basically means I'm not stereotypically feminine. I am every bit of a female/woman. My real name is Lisa which I dislike because it doesn't suit me. I am not transgender/nonbinary. I am a cisgender, masculine lesbian (i.e. butch). I don't wear makeup, dresses, heels, etc. I don't bake (although a British friend got me into "Bake Off") nor do anything traditionally feminine. But I am a biological woman.
I'm gender nonconforming and prefer Noble. Noble is the real name of an old friend I greatly admired. If I need to prove I am a woman (mind you, I am a masculine woman), I'll do so.
Hello Cherry, and thank you, btw. 🤗
Hi Noble, I don't see gender as a binary, and I am sure there is a little of each in us all.
We are not too strict about who comes here, just as long as they are women in their hearts.
Thanks. I am a woman though lol I just don't conform to feminine beauty standards. I don't shave nor anything like that though so I am mistaken as a man.
TBH Noble, most of the threads are just chat about this that and the next thing. The girly typ chat is here, clothes, heels, etc but it is not why we are all here. It does not define us.
I feel you will fit in fine.
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TBH Noble, most of the threads are just chat about this that and the next thing. The girly typ chat is here, clothes, heels, etc but it is not why we are all here. It does not define us.
I feel you will fit in fine.
Hey I'm used to it! I was just explaining gender nonconformity (as a woman) to marci.
Something one has to understand about me is that I don't know much about these things and I have a curious mind. I apologize.
No need to apologize! I apologize for bringing it up honestly. The using a Christian name thing caught me off guard (I've never seen it requested anywhere else lol), and I thought that explaining why I prefer a unisex/masculine name, on a women's forum, was necessary. I likely just don't fit in here, which is okay. I recorded a video to properly introduce myself. imgur.com/a/0aTq4M8 ...be warned, I am likely different from everyone here!
Something one has to understand about me is that I don't know much about these things and I have a curious mind. I apologize.
No need to apologize! I apologize for bringing it up honestly. The using a Christian name thing caught me off guard (I've never seen it requested anywhere else lol), and I thought that explaining why I prefer a unisex/masculine name, on a women's forum, was necessary. I likely just don't fit in here, which is okay. I recorded a video to properly introduce myself. imgur.com/a/0aTq4M8 ...be warned, I am likely different from everyone here!