Why do women like mani/pedicures? Nov 26, 2022 21:40:37 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Nov 26, 2022 21:40:37 GMT -5
My mom always used to get her nails done. I still remember that smell. She always had red nails and would break her nails. I wonder why my mom did that. My mom was also struggling with her weight and i felt bad for her. she tried soo hard. Ate her own salads, told me how to eat fruits and lots of veggies. She went to the YMCA. Lots some weights. She super proud. Sorry, I went off on a tengent...but
why do women want pretty nails?
I hate to admit this...but I am attracted to hands and feet of a women. I'm sorry ladies. I try super super hard not to look at any women's hands for a second or even their feet. I am that weak....I am not blaming you, but can you help a man understand why you do it?
Do you you think you are ugly? so you need it?
Do you think you are already fine, so you need extra glittery things.
Do you do it to compensate for another part of you that you judge as not pretty enough for you (even other are attracted to you?)
why do you do it?
Is it to show off to your friends? I know other friends should share in your happiness but ..
I guess...is this all part of being a women...
My daughter is putting black marker on her hands. I feel bad like "does she doe this because it's pretty?"
i'm learning a lot of things from my wife and daughter
I know I am not gonna lust after you ladies for your cute nails and such but I need good helpful thoughts and need your help and advice here.
i deep appreciate your answers. If there are none, it's OK. I just say "Thank you"
PS. When I'm at work, and I see a women's hands, I know it can be a small trigger for me, but I do give them compliments, like "oh your nails are pretty" but I am not getting aroused just saying that and it's helping me to sort of 'say it' and 'not' have bad thoughts. Like a sober moment in my life is occurring and there is no lust. That is what's going in my heart if you really wanted to know the truth, if you care
I had a bad thought too, at church a long time ago, my wife was wearing open toed sandals and had her nails done and a man told her, no nice sandals, but my sick warped corrupt mind thought (why is that man checking out my wifes feet?) and I got super upset. I got super annoyed because I know my own weakness about this area, which is why I try to not give in not entertain myself and give a compliment to a women's shoes, (especially when skin is involved and I am tempted to look). Sorry I guess I'm a hypocrite still.