I don't really mean the slapping part literally. I know I'll never be the most glamourous member of my group and I can live with that. What I mean is that my boyfriend sometimes asks why I am taking so long over my appearance when I'm only going out with the girls. I think he thinks I'm open to approaches by other guys and sure, I want other guys to think I look good. But the main reason is I know my friends will look good so I want to as well.
I'm not the bitch I might have sounded in my first post, honestly. :-)