Relationship

« Prev
1
Next »

ciaraciaraciara77119 New Member Posts: 1	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 3:05:40 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ciaraciaraciara77119 on Jan 29, 2022 3:05:40 GMT -5 My boyfriend recently lost his beloved one. I wanted to break up with him before this, and now I can’t do this because he’s already in depression. When is it right time to break up after this?

a_muppet
Global Moderator

Posts: 28,492

Member is Online

Relationship Jan 29, 2022 3:29:22 GMT -5

Quote

Post by a_muppet on Jan 29, 2022 3:29:22 GMT -5

Jan 29, 2022 3:05:40 GMT -5 ciaraciaraciara77119 said:

My boyfriend recently lost his beloved one. I wanted to break up with him before this, and now I can’t do this because he’s already in depression. When is it right time to break up after this?

I don't think you can put a figure on this, you just see how it develops, and leave when you feel you need to.

I am presuming that you are leaving as you have fallen out of love, and you are not being mistreated.

Caution, I am feral.

cassie Elite Member II Posts: 6,009	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 4:48:08 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cassie on Jan 29, 2022 4:48:08 GMT -5 Agree its difficult and provided ou are not in any danger from him I would go easy but ease yourself away. Dont make any promises for the future and dont keep him hanging on too long.

kjay Moderator Posts: 18,253	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 7:00:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by kjay on Jan 29, 2022 7:00:33 GMT -5 This is a difficult situation. Maybe a little time and see what happens and slowly distance yourself. But you have to do what is best for you in the long run.
	Chase your dreams. In high heels of course.

heatherly Administrator Maintain low tones! Posts: 15,311	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 9:58:10 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by heatherly on Jan 29, 2022 9:58:10 GMT -5 Just be there for him as a friend for now. You may start to feel when the time is right after things calm down a bit for him, and then you can let him down gently.

TestDummyCO Preferred Member Posts: 2,649	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 10:45:10 GMT -5 alsr likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TestDummyCO on Jan 29, 2022 10:45:10 GMT -5 I agree with all the others and want to reiterate that if he's abusive, get out now. An abusive man deserves none of your empathy, as he surely doesn't have any for you.
	Last Edit: Jan 29, 2022 10:45:23 GMT -5 by TestDummyCO

Popcorn&Candy
Elite Member III

Posts: 7,786

Relationship Jan 30, 2022 14:34:51 GMT -5 alsr likes this

Quote

Post by Popcorn&Candy on Jan 30, 2022 14:34:51 GMT -5

I know your boyfriend is heartbroken because of his loss, but don't keep him hanging, either: you owe him the truth. You're deeply unhappy in your relationship and nothing can fix it. It'll never be the right time to break up with him: so just get it over and done with. If your boyfriend is a big boy, he'll understand why you're breaking up with him.

If you respect him, you should show that respect by being truthful with him.

Last Edit: Jan 30, 2022 14:35:05 GMT -5 by Popcorn&Candy

Reigning Supreme Queen Of Laundry

Shoutbox

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡: Good day everyone. I hope you have something delicious and nutritious

Sept 10, 2023 21:23:11 GMT -5

Mary: Chips & a vending machine sandwich Sept 10, 2023 22:09:41 GMT -5

Leaf: I didn't eat all day yesterday except for a bag of chips, a second courtesy of a friend and co-worker, and then a hot dog at the end of the night into the morning. Sept 11, 2023 12:56:45 GMT -5

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡: I can eat lots of hot dogs Sept 13, 2023 5:17:47 GMT -5

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡: I'm hungry Sept 15, 2023 3:51:59 GMT -5

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡: I'm still hungry

Sept 17, 2023 7:04:31 GMT -5

Mary: Hope you're doing well Dominic. Sept 18, 2023 0:07:19 GMT -5

kjay: And i hope you ate something.

Sept 18, 2023 15:30:01 GMT -5

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡: I had one orange and smell like oranges

Sept 18, 2023 21:18:59 GMT -5

Mary: LOL! Not a bad smell Dominic. Sept 19, 2023 0:59:47 GMT -5

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡:

Sept 19, 2023 3:36:04 GMT -5

Alina: how do I write something on here. im lost Sept 19, 2023 14:58:40 GMT -5

heatherly: Alina, your post went through. Right now you are in limited access until we get to know you better, so you will be restricted to posting in certain areas. Sept 19, 2023 15:42:09 GMT -5

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡: welcome Alina Sept 20, 2023 9:02:56 GMT -5

Mary: Ladies check the Avatars section for your fall avatars. If anyone wants one made let me know. Sept 21, 2023 12:34:53 GMT -5

Mary: Dominic if you want one too I'll be glad to make you one. Sept 21, 2023 16:19:06 GMT -5

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡: How sweet of you Mary

Sept 21, 2023 18:48:07 GMT -5

Mary: If that's a yes I'll make you one and msg you Sept 21, 2023 18:50:27 GMT -5

asiazielinska: Haha I want to try too

Sept 22, 2023 7:59:41 GMT -5

Dominic( ˘⌣˘)♡: Thank you Mary. Sept 22, 2023 18:21:22 GMT -5