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ciaraciaraciara77119 New Member Posts: 1	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 3:05:40 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ciaraciaraciara77119 on Jan 29, 2022 3:05:40 GMT -5 My boyfriend recently lost his beloved one. I wanted to break up with him before this, and now I can’t do this because he’s already in depression. When is it right time to break up after this?

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Post by a_muppet on Jan 29, 2022 3:29:22 GMT -5

Jan 29, 2022 3:05:40 GMT -5 ciaraciaraciara77119 said:

My boyfriend recently lost his beloved one. I wanted to break up with him before this, and now I can’t do this because he’s already in depression. When is it right time to break up after this?

I don't think you can put a figure on this, you just see how it develops, and leave when you feel you need to.

I am presuming that you are leaving as you have fallen out of love, and you are not being mistreated.

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cassie Elite Member II Posts: 5,253	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 4:48:08 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cassie on Jan 29, 2022 4:48:08 GMT -5 Agree its difficult and provided ou are not in any danger from him I would go easy but ease yourself away. Dont make any promises for the future and dont keep him hanging on too long.

kjay Moderator Posts: 15,769	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 7:00:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by kjay on Jan 29, 2022 7:00:33 GMT -5 This is a difficult situation. Maybe a little time and see what happens and slowly distance yourself. But you have to do what is best for you in the long run.
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heatherly Administrator Maintain low tones! Posts: 14,687	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 9:58:10 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by heatherly on Jan 29, 2022 9:58:10 GMT -5 Just be there for him as a friend for now. You may start to feel when the time is right after things calm down a bit for him, and then you can let him down gently.

TestDummyCO Preferred Member Posts: 2,192	Relationship Jan 29, 2022 10:45:10 GMT -5 alsr likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TestDummyCO on Jan 29, 2022 10:45:10 GMT -5 I agree with all the others and want to reiterate that if he's abusive, get out now. An abusive man deserves none of your empathy, as he surely doesn't have any for you.
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Post by Popcorn&Candy on Jan 30, 2022 14:34:51 GMT -5

I know your boyfriend is heartbroken because of his loss, but don't keep him hanging, either: you owe him the truth. You're deeply unhappy in your relationship and nothing can fix it. It'll never be the right time to break up with him: so just get it over and done with. If your boyfriend is a big boy, he'll understand why you're breaking up with him.

If you respect him, you should show that respect by being truthful with him.

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Post by ciaraciaraciara77119 on Jan 29, 2022 3:05:40 GMT -5

Post by a_muppet on Jan 29, 2022 3:29:22 GMT -5

Post by cassie on Jan 29, 2022 4:48:08 GMT -5

Post by kjay on Jan 29, 2022 7:00:33 GMT -5

Post by heatherly on Jan 29, 2022 9:58:10 GMT -5

Post by TestDummyCO on Jan 29, 2022 10:45:10 GMT -5

Post by Popcorn&Candy on Jan 30, 2022 14:34:51 GMT -5

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