Post by ciaraciaraciara77119 on Jan 29, 2022 3:05:40 GMT -5
My boyfriend recently lost his beloved one. I wanted to break up with him before this, and now I can’t do this because he’s already in depression. When is it right time to break up after this?
My boyfriend recently lost his beloved one. I wanted to break up with him before this, and now I can’t do this because he’s already in depression. When is it right time to break up after this?
I don't think you can put a figure on this, you just see how it develops, and leave when you feel you need to.
I am presuming that you are leaving as you have fallen out of love, and you are not being mistreated.
This is a difficult situation. Maybe a little time and see what happens and slowly distance yourself. But you have to do what is best for you in the long run.
Just be there for him as a friend for now. You may start to feel when the time is right after things calm down a bit for him, and then you can let him down gently.
Post by TestDummyCO on Jan 29, 2022 10:45:10 GMT -5
I agree with all the others and want to reiterate that if he's abusive, get out now. An abusive man deserves none of your empathy, as he surely doesn't have any for you.
Last Edit: Jan 29, 2022 10:45:23 GMT -5 by TestDummyCO
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Jan 30, 2022 14:34:51 GMT -5
I know your boyfriend is heartbroken because of his loss, but don't keep him hanging, either: you owe him the truth. You're deeply unhappy in your relationship and nothing can fix it. It'll never be the right time to break up with him: so just get it over and done with. If your boyfriend is a big boy, he'll understand why you're breaking up with him.
If you respect him, you should show that respect by being truthful with him.
Last Edit: Jan 30, 2022 14:35:05 GMT -5 by Popcorn&Candy
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