Honestly, if we never give people a taste of their own medicine because we're trying to be super nice all the time, we're not doing them favours. People need to know if their behaviour is unacceptable, or just stinky. Then they can choose to change.
I now tell my kids that when they whine, I'm interpreting it as "Give me work to do, Mum." And I will follow through, to get that whining habit out of here...
Tough love, baby.
My mum was always stressed when she was in the kitchen.
If we went anywhere near "YOU COME IN THE KITCHEN AND YOU WILL GET A JOB!"
I don't like people who are lazy to think. I am not disappointed at stupid people, I have paitence for them. I don't have patience for people who don't want to think for themselves or do anything for themselves, I depise people who take advantage of others.