Who makes that final decision?

Thia is tough. I will not make any decision if I don't understand the matter well, then I defer to my husband.

But we agree on what each of us have the final say.

I am the sort of person who will go along with the general view in most things but if I feel strongly about something I dig my heels in and decide. As such I suppose I am the decider even though mostly I don't have to.

Evening .

Mom taught me when we had to flee from where we were, it was Mom who was the Boss and had to work as i was growing up she got me to decide things part of my training then was we decide , at work it was the Boss then different foreman on the job allso with that i had to decide on jobs and do them, when i ran my own outfit i had to be incharge some times i had other,s come in as well so we would , when on my own i did the accounts soi learnt quick. had some one else done it i would have been happy ,

When Jos and i got to gether it was up to me so yes i had to do most of it . when you run your own concern its a different ball game . i did try and get Jos to do some of it ,,,she said no way, yet for all that i allways tryed to talk about every thing, and even after our time together we still will concerning the kids grandkids and what ever we need to so if i sale the house before i do ...WE... will talk about it we may not live together and so on i still take her on board though she has said is up to me i said maybe thing is it still about us , thats the kind of relastionship we have .

What would happen if i found a partner one i,m still the Boss and i will make it very plain i,m in charge that wont change a man wont ever be incharge of this Lass that may sound harsh well tough, i have a very good reason for that and thats life ,

you may say i wont get a partner if i,m that way well im 73 and this ship has not sunk yet i,m the one who maintains it so i,ll decide what need,s to be done and who with i did not come out of a major depression to be told what to do for nothing ,

I,ll tell you what Mom taught me well.

...noeleena...

I voted for me but in reality if it is something important we discuss it and make a decision.



As least that is what he thinks lol....

.  That would make it even better...