lol probably not for me, too. I have a preference for men who are taller than me... Once I did date someone who was only slightly taller than me, and with my tiny heels I was his height or slightly taller. I think he was one of those types who lied about their height, too... he actually would wear shoes that made him a little taller looking. He would say he was 5`9, but I don't think so lol maybe with those shoes. I'm like 5`6, and I was already close in height to him... so I bet he was closer to 5`7.
My husband is quite small and I continued to grow after we married I ended up 2 inches taller than him , but that never stopped me... or him. He loved having this tall statuesque woman on his arm. I know I've told this story before but one time he was coming home after being away in England I went to meet him at the port. Little black dress black stockings long black leather coat in very high black stilettos... I walked through the arrivals building and watched as every head turned. I stood and waited and as he came through the gates the guy he was walking with nudged him, laughed and said someone's in for a treat tonight... My husband just grinned and said I know I am!!!
Heels ...A... what....Oh them ,well now not worn mine for a long time and really i,m high enough as it is at 5 9. many guys i dance with are pretty close a few a bit higher and some a bit shorter, none of them give a care we are there to dance and have a good time i quess with in our group,s we have 150 member,s .
As it is i wear flat.es will i wear heals dancing doubt it as i have no need, and really would not improve my looks in any way and we have a Scottish Ball coming up 17 th this month and if all goes well Pam my dance partner will have a new man to dance with , So will be interesting how i will go so i will take my camera gear as a backup if i dont get to dance i,ll just do photo,s and natter to other,s there,
One issue i have in no male dance partner if it were not for Pam i would miss out i dont expect other men to dance with me if thier partners are at our dance evening,s
I cant get a guy and i have been trying to find a few to come, for myself no interest yet we go around the south island to many dance,s oh well.....
My ex was 5'11 and my hubby now is 6'1 so I never have that problem but If they are shorties, I would wear flat when I am with them but high heels when I am not.
My ex was 5'11 and my hubby now is 6'1 so I never have that problem...
Those are the heights of my ex and hubby as well!
I'm 5'8, so tall enough. I wear heels (3" max) on special occasions or when visiting different offices where I don't have to walk a lot. Normally, I walk about a half mile from my car to my office every morning, then another quarter mile or so to different buildings during work. So, only comfortable walking shoes for the most part.
I have dated shorter men by only an inch or so. I never restricted my footwear for any man. When one slightly taller guy said "No heels for you," I dumped him.
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My ex was 5'11 and my hubby now is 6'1 so I never have that problem...
Those are the heights of my ex and hubby as well!
I'm 5'8, so tall enough. I wear heels (3" max) on special occasions or when visiting different offices where I don't have to walk a lot. Normally, I walk about a half mile from my car to my office every morning, then another quarter mile or so to different buildings during work. So, only comfortable walking shoes for the most part.
I have dated shorter men by only an inch or so. I never restricted my footwear for any man. When one slightly taller guy said "No heels for you," I dumped him.
5'8, you can be a model! I wish I were taller but I am only 5'3. You must be a great looking couple with either your ex or your hubby now. Those are the great height for both men and women.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Aug 23, 2021 3:56:19 GMT -5
I'm also 5'3. And I also would love to be taller!
BUT being tall takes confidence. You're towering above everyone, so you can't hide in a crowd. Your feet are usually bigger, too: large feet on women are not always the norm.
My ex was 5'11 and my hubby now is 6'1 so I never have that problem...
Those are the heights of my ex and hubby as well!
I'm 5'8, so tall enough. I wear heels (3" max) on special occasions or when visiting different offices where I don't have to walk a lot. Normally, I walk about a half mile from my car to my office every morning, then another quarter mile or so to different buildings during work. So, only comfortable walking shoes for the most part.
I have dated shorter men by only an inch or so. I never restricted my footwear for any man. When one slightly taller guy said "No heels for you," I dumped him.
BUT being tall takes confidence. You're towering above everyone, so you can't hide in a crowd. Your feet are usually bigger, too: large feet on women are not always the norm.
Being tall seems great, but it isn't.
I would love to be 5'6 then when i have my heels on, I would be 5'9. That's about right.
I find this topic really interesting, I have never thought something like "how does my height makes my partner feel?" With that liberty and the fact that we both can wear heels (or not) if we want to, it all comes to where are we going and how long are we going to be there.
No matter how tall or short you are, if you want to wear heels do it.
This!
In fact, I love shoe porn! LOL. Basically, I keep photos of high heels on my computer. This is because women's shoes are so beautiful. They are glamorous and stylish. I reckon women are lucky for that reason. Shoes are definitely worth splashing out on.
Writing the above: you don't have to go into a shoe shop. You can look at pictures on Google and order online. The more unusual shoes are found this way. There are some lovely rainbow heels, for example. You can buy any shoe design from Google. Click on the link and - using PayPal - you can buy your desired heels withot having to register with online shops.
I do quite a bit of my shopping for shoes online but there is nothing like going to a good shoe store and trying them on and on and on. Oh and of course buying them.
No matter how tall or short you are, if you want to wear heels do it.
This!
In fact, I love shoe porn! LOL. Basically, I keep photos of high heels on my computer. This is because women's shoes are so beautiful. They are glamorous and stylish. I reckon women are lucky for that reason. Shoes are definitely worth splashing out on.
Writing the above: you don't have to go into a shoe shop. You can look at pictures on Google and order online. The more unusual shoes are found this way. There are some lovely rainbow heels, for example. You can buy any shoe design from Google. Click on the link and - using PayPal - you can buy your desired heels withot having to register with online shops.
Post by Popcorn&Candy on Aug 28, 2021 3:23:29 GMT -5
I'm going to be blunt here: the pleasers are sex shoes, as we all realize!
Some of them I don't like, but most I do. I just think they are funky nightclub type high heels. A woman wouldn't go to the shops in them. The rainbow shoes are lovely, though: we are in agreement there, Cherry!
Out of curiosity, Cherry, could you post a link of high heels you DO like? I'd be very interested in seeing what you prefer! Because women's shoes are beautiful. AND women can now wear stylish - even designer - flat shoes that aren't trainers or with a masculine look. Feminine shoes CAN be flat, too.
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